TCSS thread "My favourite MASSAGE girls"

[ddae44]

Originally Posted by MiG27

Friends got many levels one mah...at least for me.
Those gals I can converse well with n can crack jokes, nothing wrong treating them as friends.
I treat them as friends doesn't mean must buy them gifts or give big tips.
Just be nice n treat them w respect.
I see nothing wrong w that.

Friends have many levels. Some of them ask you for favours , yes. Some of them willing to talk to you like i have 1 who RTC but talk to me over anything just like good friends.

Really dependa. But i also met a few money faces

[ShittyAss]

Originally Posted by Blu3

A bit hesitant to ask this but do you regard Adele as a friend being her regular so long?

Well... certain things she will not share or I will not share with her...in short there will be reservation for sure on the content or topic..

If u consider friends like your colleagues or schoolmates.. definitely any MLs will not be..

If u consider talking nonsense and crap as being friends ... well every MLs are your friends...

[GilaCow]

Originally Posted by Blu3

A bit hesitant to ask this but do you regard Adele as a friend being her regular so long?

The definition of friend is subjective to different ppl. To start off, Adele is local and not a PRC who will return home after their stint ends. Short of saying the PRC MLs are milking us for our worth if we really treat them as friends, but they are just trying to hook as many samsters to be their regulars during their stay here. If you are lucky, perhaps you can find some companionship here and there but once they are gone, you know they wouldn’t even respond to your wechat msg probably. All these so-call “friends” are fake in a way.

Personally, it really takes a bit of something and time of knowing each other better before I classify anyone as friends.

[Angellover]

Well, in my book, if you still looking for the ML for services then is not friend already

[ShittyAss]

Originally Posted by Angellover

Well, in my book, if you still looking for the ML for services then is not friend already

Ya cos S-11 is involved lah...

[Johndick]

Originally Posted by GilaCow

The definition of friend is subjective to different ppl. To start off, Adele is local and not a PRC who will return home after their stint ends. Short of saying the PRC MLs are milking us for our worth if we really treat them as friends, but they are just trying to hook as many samsters to be their regulars during their stay here. If you are lucky, perhaps you can find some companionship here and there but once they are gone, you know they wouldn’t even respond to your wechat msg probably. All these so-call “friends” are fake in a way.

Personally, it really takes a bit of something and time of knowing each other better before I classify anyone as friends.

Well said. Especially your last line. Majority of the colleagues we see and talk to DAILY for YEARS are not even considered our friends lol. So let's not kid ourselves that just coz we can hold a great conversation with these MLs then they are our friends.. When you are not paying for their TIME you see how many of them will bother to chat with you lah.

[Sanji]

Originally Posted by Blu3

A bit hesitant to ask this but do you regard Adele as a friend being her regular so long?

Every mls is for making money, but for Adele is special. She gives me the feeling that she makes money but not greedy. She is very friendly and has a kind heart. This is where she attracts me , and of course her super clean place and first class service "HDLY"

[Johndick]

Originally Posted by Sanji

Every mls is for making money, but for Adele is special. She gives me the feeling that she makes money but not greedy. She is very friendly and has a kind heart. This is where she attracts me , and of course her super clean place and first class service "HDLY"

I have not met Adele so can't comment on her antics but bro one thing we gotta factor in is, if a ML only have X number of months here to earn, it is natural that they will likely be the money grabbing mentality lah. Coz there's an expiry date to their stint. Even a 6 mths stay ML can behave very differently from a 1 year stay ML, whom tend to chillax more, take long breaks, work based on mood. So a local ML.. you get the drift lah

[JasonJG]

Originally Posted by Sanji

Every mls is for making money, but for Adele is special. She gives me the feeling that she makes money but not greedy. She is very friendly and has a kind heart. This is where she attracts me , and of course her super clean place and first class service "HDLY"

Huh! You sure?

[ddae44]

Originally Posted by Angellover

Well, in my book, if you still looking for the ML for services then is not friend already

True to that.

I stop visiting them once we started talking on wechat. They will find me to talk over daily stuff and ask me stuff. But never ask me to go find them. Feel funny also. Perhaps they themselves also kept a distance once they feel something that is out of context

[Angellover]

Originally Posted by ddae44

True to that.

I stop visiting them once we started talking on wechat. They will find me to talk over daily stuff and ask me stuff. But never ask me to go find them. Feel funny also. Perhaps they themselves also kept a distance once they feel something that is out of context

Agreed, you will find the ML go from asking when you going to see her to not bothering to ask anymore, sometimes deliberately not taking you
But still talk to you on other stuff

[FK111]

Originally Posted by ddae44

True to that.

I stop visiting them once we started talking on wechat. They will find me to talk over daily stuff and ask me stuff. But never ask me to go find them. Feel funny also. Perhaps they themselves also kept a distance once they feel something that is out of context

Agreed. It's happened to a lot of us. When the ML starts to develop feelings for you, it becomes obvious.

MLs are human too.

[Sanji]

Originally Posted by Johndick

I have not met Adele so can't comment on her antics but bro one thing we gotta factor in is, if a ML only have X number of months here to earn, it is natural that they will likely be the money grabbing mentality lah. Coz there's an expiry date to their stint. Even a 6 mths stay ML can behave very differently from a 1 year stay ML, whom tend to chillax more, take long breaks, work based on mood. So a local ML.. you get the drift lah

Well said bro ! Don't be nervous, I am not saying other ml is greed, there are good one also, I am just saying that what I feel about Adele, they are all good

[Blu3]

Originally Posted by FK111

Agreed. It's happened to a lot of us. When the ML starts to develop feelings for you, it becomes obvious.

MLs are human too.

Well true and not true, different ppl read signals differently as well and often they misunderstood that the ML is just being polite. I hear this a lot when I speak to them, kind of entertaining.

[LiuBei]

Originally Posted by Angellover

Agreed, you will find the ML go from asking when you going to see her to not bothering to ask anymore, sometimes deliberately not taking you
But still talk to you on other stuff

Agreed. Because it's getting harder for them to compartmentalized their growing feeling.