Issue with ICA

[etsys]

Originally Posted by merelyevil

Thanks for the kind advice thus far all.

Yes the IO allowed as their SP is going to be at least 2-3 months. He mentioned if the girls would like a proper job and they are being rejected for not having a work permit, ask the employers to give the IO a call. Now the problem is which employers will hire them for a 2-3 months stint minimum...

Try restaurants, like those Thai or Indonesian places. Walk in and ask.

If she still doing FL, head to do the same in OT.

Can't give you any connection there

[merelyevil]

Originally Posted by etsys

Try restaurants, like those Thai or Indonesian places. Walk in and ask.

If she still doing FL, head to do the same in OT.

Can't give you any connection there

Good info. Thanks

[etsys]

Originally Posted by merelyevil

Good info. Thanks

Just make sure she don't get caught in another raid in OT If her original white card is by AV

[odanobunaga]

Originally Posted by lawry

hold you horse young boy...

lets not talk about coming back to singapore...
lets first talk about.. SHE IS A BLOODY FL!

now you are memorised her the wonderful sex she gives you.

you already said you have a degree. you draw a decent income!

why want to marry FL? what happen one day we meet and you introduce your wife to me.. and i say lawry fuck her before.. you deep inside song meh?

worst come to worst.. go buy a bride lah.. vietnam a lot..

seriously don't even you dare to marry a FL.. KTV girl maybe.. cause some don't sleep with clients..

FL... after the great sex and romance dies off.. you will curse and swear at her for been an ex-fl.. I bet my last 2 cents.

and dream on! FL even it says only 3 years.. they are already blacklisted..

unless they became donald T's wife and as the president of USA.. she will be allowed back to singapore

Hard Truths!

[Doomas]

Just to share my story. I was in a r/s with a Thai WL in my younger and foolhardy days. She was the yellow cardholder type and from a GL cathouse. Well, I didn't get to marry her as I hoped to but she did marry one of her customers. Fella was not so young, not that educated, and had a technical job, the type who always had grease on his coveralls. She was allowed to live in Singapore with him, and gave him two wonderful children. Their kids are big now. Her hubby set up a small business in LOS and she's there with him now. I still call her sometimes to chat. Hubby knows but he doesn't mind bcz he knows I don't mean any monkey biz. In fact, she's eager for me to meet him but I'm the one holding back. I shy lah. No regrets for knowing her. To add on, I know of other Thai WLs who return here regularly for reasons such as social, holiday, business and family.

Now for myself. My first wife was a Thai FL. Beautiful smart woman from Isaan. When my friends found out she was FL-ing, out of respect for me they didn't patronise her. However, two of them felt pussy is more valuable than brother...classic example of 为妓忘国 (sounds so much more better in hokkien - wei ji mong gok). One of them passed away but I sincerely wish him well where ever he is now. The other bugger is still around, however last I heard karma caught up with him. Back to my ex-wife. I was headed for bankruptcy and told her to divorce me so that she would not get implicated. Besides I know she had a customer who was happy to marry her. Last I know she also had two kids and is living in the US now. I don't contact her bcz her hubby is not as easy going as my Thai ex-gf. But itz ok, I have no regrets for marrying her too.

Buying a bride. Personally I'm repulsed by the idea. It's basically legalised human trafficking. And often the girl is forced or blackmailed into it. I know this because some of my work covers human trafficking.

Now for the moral of this long story. If you are sure this FL is the one for you, think long and hard, take a break, think longer and harder again, take another break, and think even longer and harder again. If after all that you are still sure, then full steam ahead and torpedoes be damned. Of course marrying a FL is not for everyone. Key phrase to cultivate is 放下. Let go of her past and with it, all baggage. If people go up to you and say they had a good time with her, they are just being cheebyekias. You should then tell them that you now have a good time every night while they are stuck with their fugly wives (which is prolly the reason why they hunt for better looking pussy).

However, I do agree with bro lawry. It will be difficult securing her return here. If have kids, may be a bit easier but still an uphill battle.

Hope this helps.

Doomas

Originally Posted by merelyevil

Hi Hurricane88,

Thanks, you don't know how much your answer meant to me. 3 to 5 years.. can i say after 5 years she confirm can enter as a tourist again? Or is there any way to confirm it?

How about marriage? I foresee complications.. i have the highest qualification level and earn a decent amount, will that even be any help at all? Of course i know you cannot guarantee but i would just like opinions. Thanks a ton

[merelyevil]

Originally Posted by Doomas

Just to share my story. I was in a r/s with a Thai WL in my younger and foolhardy days. She was the yellow cardholder type and from a GL cathouse. Well, I didn't get to marry her as I hoped to but she did marry one of her customers. Fella was not so young, not that educated, and had a technical job, the type who always had grease on his coveralls. She was allowed to live in Singapore with him, and gave him two wonderful children. Their kids are big now. Her hubby set up a small business in LOS and she's there with him now. I still call her sometimes to chat. Hubby knows but he doesn't mind bcz he knows I don't mean any monkey biz. In fact, she's eager for me to meet him but I'm the one holding back. I shy lah. No regrets for knowing her. To add on, I know of other Thai WLs who return here regularly for reasons such as social, holiday, business and family.

Now for myself. My first wife was a Thai FL. Beautiful smart woman from Isaan. When my friends found out she was FL-ing, out of respect for me they didn't patronise her. However, two of them felt pussy is more valuable than brother...classic example of 为妓忘国 (sounds so much more better in hokkien - wei ji mong gok). One of them passed away but I sincerely wish him well where ever he is now. The other bugger is still around, however last I heard karma caught up with him. Back to my ex-wife. I was headed for bankruptcy and told her to divorce me so that she would not get implicated. Besides I know she had a customer who was happy to marry her. Last I know she also had two kids and is living in the US now. I don't contact her bcz her hubby is not as easy going as my Thai ex-gf. But itz ok, I have no regrets for marrying her too.

Buying a bride. Personally I'm repulsed by the idea. It's basically legalised human trafficking. And often the girl is forced or blackmailed into it. I know this because some of my work covers human trafficking.

Now for the moral of this long story. If you are sure this FL is the one for you, think long and hard, take a break, think longer and harder again, take another break, and think even longer and harder again. If after all that you are still sure, then full steam ahead and torpedoes be damned. Of course marrying a FL is not for everyone. Key phrase to cultivate is 放下. Let go of her past and with it, all baggage. If people go up to you and say they had a good time with her, they are just being cheebyekias. You should then tell them that you now have a good time every night while they are stuck with their fugly wives (which is prolly the reason why they hunt for better looking pussy).

However, I do agree with bro lawry. It will be difficult securing her return here. If have kids, may be a bit easier but still an uphill battle.

Hope this helps.

Doomas

Hi Doomas,

I fully agreed with you. It's the stigma and all. I really don't give a shit to what others are saying. And yeah, given her situation now it is really not easy. The easier way out is that i will be the work-abroad husband while my wife and family will be in thailand or elsewhere... we shall see when the time comes.

Thanks for sharing your story with us. It is a feasible relationship but not a common one. And the process of reaching unconditional love is a tough battle

[katong]

Originally Posted by merelyevil

Hi Doomas,

I fully agreed with you. It's the stigma and all. I really don't give a shit to what others are saying. And yeah, given her situation now it is really not easy. The easier way out is that i will be the work-abroad husband while my wife and family will be in thailand or elsewhere... we shall see when the time comes.

Thanks for sharing your story with us. It is a feasible relationship but not a common one. And the process of reaching unconditional love is a tough battle

Hi bro... i'm really curious.. just to ask.. how old are you now?

[Doomas]

Haha old. Letz just say I was very sad to see my WL haunts at Lor 4 disappear

Originally Posted by katong

Hi bro... i'm really curious.. just to ask.. how old are you now?

[honeyhorny]

Would need some advise on ICA matter

My PRC gal friend is currently a student in Singapore but she will be graduating soon. I would like to apply for her to stay on in Singapore. Is there any pass/ visa to apply for her in order that she can stay on for a longer term than the usual tourist visa?

I have looked at the information in ICA and there seems to be a Long Term Visitor Pass. However it seems that you have to be married before u can apply for that

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by honeyhorny

Would need some advise on ICA matter

My PRC gal friend is currently a student in Singapore but she will be graduating soon. I would like to apply for her to stay on in Singapore. Is there any pass/ visa to apply for her in order that she can stay on for a longer term than the usual tourist visa?

I have looked at the information in ICA and there seems to be a Long Term Visitor Pass. However it seems that you have to be married before u can apply for that

Long Term Visitor Pass - LTVP only for spouse
Work Permit - working in Singapore on permit but need permission from MOM if want to marry WP (WP need to pay levy)
Special Pass - also working in Singapore qualifying salary $2,200/month (SP need to pay levy)
Employment Pass - also working in Singapore qualifying salary $3,600/month

Please check MOM or ICA online for further details..

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by honeyhorny

Is there any pass/ visa to apply for her in order that she can stay on for a longer term than the usual tourist visa?

Go China and visit her... no way for her to stay in SG long unless study another course.

[etsys]

Originally Posted by honeyhorny

Would need some advise on ICA matter

My PRC gal friend is currently a student in Singapore but she will be graduating soon. I would like to apply for her to stay on in Singapore. Is there any pass/ visa to apply for her in order that she can stay on for a longer term than the usual tourist visa?

I have looked at the information in ICA and there seems to be a Long Term Visitor Pass. However it seems that you have to be married before u can apply for that

Marry her!

Doing visa extensions will bite you one day and she may get banned for long time.

[Ninja_Assassin]

Originally Posted by etsys

Marry her!

Doing visa extensions will bite you one day and she may get banned for long time.

Getting married does not guarantee she can stay long term either..... depends on various other factors.

[pojstemp]

Originally Posted by honeyhorny

Would need some advise on ICA matter

My drinking buddy got door knock at GL hotel. CID.

Said he enstranged with wife and Thai gf w him in whirlwind relationship.
No soliciting and $$ involved. Only small appreciation tips $4 or $5 for pouring beer he met at G.Mile. Came together to same Hotel 5 times already.

Friend asked to go home. Girl released 4-5 hr later w Sp Pass and flew bk
2 days later. Said 3 yrs ban.

1. She is 1st time Sg and NOT WL or soliciting
2. Just wrong place and wrong time n bad luck
3, Comply and co-operated with raid.

What brothers/experts can advise her ? To appeal to who ?

Honestly tell officers in Hotel(verbal) that got appreciation tips in GM.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by pojstemp

My drinking buddy got door knock at GL hotel. CID.

Said he enstranged with wife and Thai gf w him in whirlwind relationship.
No soliciting and $$ involved. Only small appreciation tips $4 or $5 for pouring beer he met at G.Mile. Came together to same Hotel 5 times already.

Friend asked to go home. Girl released 4-5 hr later w Sp Pass and flew bk
2 days later. Said 3 yrs ban.

1. She is 1st time Sg and NOT WL or soliciting
2. Just wrong place and wrong time n bad luck
3, Comply and co-operated with raid.

What brothers/experts can advise her ? To appeal to who ?

Honestly tell officers in Hotel(verbal) that got appreciation tips in GM.

Nothing to appeal and dun waste time appeal...
Wait for the 3 year ban period to expire before coming back to Singapore...
Whatever your friend say or explained her Pass will be terminated and asked to fly home...since you are married and she is considered undesirable or a gal that break families...