What could happen when we grow old?

[titts82002]

Hi bro and sis,

Another self-reflection but quite silly question to some of you.
I have this query in my mind. your upmost opinions and thoughts will be upmost useful. Thank you

I am still an dirty oldman… not so old yet, but old.:D
However, I am still able to control my small head, not to do something silly.

What could happen, if becoming old that my big head cannot control over the dirty urge, and go into crazy acts.
Worst case, “ up lorry” or big big head shot picture is posted on newspaper crime page with title “ dirty oldman caught in the act! “

Sigh…

[loneyheart]

Treat every ladies with respect whenever u see ... mind always she just another ppl wife / daughter just like yrs
Can see cannot touch no matter how chio n sexy ... unless she want to / u pay $$$ for service
Haiz I old already too but always young at heart .... :)

[Peacekeeping]

Treat every ladies with respect whenever u see ... mind always she just another ppl wife / daughter just like yrs
Can see cannot touch no matter how chio n sexy ... unless she want to / u pay $$$ for service
Haiz I old already too but always young at heart .... :)

Young at heart but still feel lonely at times?

[fnulnu99]

Temptation is always there.

Just because the opportunity presents itself, doesn't mean you must act on it.

Better to pay for the service and manage your urges every once in awhile then suppress it.

It can be manage, like I am doing so for the past 1 year or so, since I became single again.

All the best.

Hi bro and sis,

Another self-reflection but quite silly question to some of you.
I have this query in my mind. your upmost opinions and thoughts will be upmost useful. Thank you

I am still an dirty oldman… not so old yet, but old.:D
However, I am still able to control my small head, not to do something silly.

What could happen, if becoming old that my big head cannot control over the dirty urge, and go into crazy acts.
Worst case, “ up lorry” or big big head shot picture is posted on newspaper crime page with title “ dirty oldman caught in the act! “

Sigh…

[titts82002]

Treat every ladies with respect whenever u see ... mind always she just another ppl wife / daughter just like yrs
Can see cannot touch no matter how chio n sexy ... unless she want to / u pay $$$ for service
Haiz I old already too but always young at heart .... :)

Awesome!
Thank you on sharing your ideas and thoughts

[titts82002]

Temptation is always there.

Just because the opportunity presents itself, doesn't mean you must act on it.

Better to pay for the service and manage your urges every once in awhile then suppress it.

It can be manage, like I am doing so for the past 1 year or so, since I became single again.

All the best.


Well noted. Thank you very
I am still good now, manageable…

Just think that if I can live long enough for another 20 years.. by then.
:)

[ah rat]

Haiz I old already too but always young at heart .... :)

Small head still young :)

[fnulnu99]

How far is the runway....5, 10 or 20 years is something we can not predict with certainty.

History is the past, fuck it.

Future is something we don't know, fuck it.

Most important is now, today. Make the best of it.



Just think that if I can live long enough for another 20 years.. by then.
:)

[Hurricane88]

Treat every ladies with respect whenever u see ... mind always she just another ppl wife / daughter just like yrs
Can see cannot touch no matter how chio n sexy ... unless she want to / u pay $$$ for service
Haiz I old already too but always young at heart .... :)

Also live healthy and dun burden family...best can still do everything ownself...:)

Can eat sleep and drink...can still speak clearly...keep active minds...:)

Can travel the world...no debt no liabilities no dues...:)

[Hurricane88]

What could happen, if becoming old that my big head cannot control over the dirty urge, and go into crazy acts.
Worst case, “ up lorry” or big big head shot picture is posted on newspaper crime page with title “ dirty oldman caught in the act! “

Sigh…

I dun think you want to get into trouble and headline news...:)

Tried not to play anything dangerous including bungee jumping, fark like rabbits, ride a jetski or go yachting alone...:)

[sammyboyfor]

Growing old is not what it is made out to be. It's horrendous. This is why it is so important to fuck your brains out while you are still able. :D

https://theconversation.com/tiredness-of-life-the-growing-phenomenon-in-western-society-203934?utm_source=pocket-newtab#



Molly was 88 years old and in good health. She had outlived two husbands, her siblings, most of her friends and her only son.

“I don’t have any meaningful relationships left, dear,” she told me. “They’ve all died. And you know what? Underneath it all, I want to leave this world too.” Leaning a little closer, as though she was telling me a secret, she continued:

Shall I tell you what I am? I’m strong. I can admit to myself and to you that there’s nothing left for me here. I’m more than ready to leave when it’s my time. In fact, it can’t come quickly enough.

I’ve interviewed many older people for research. Every so often, I’m struck by the sincerity with which some people feel that their life is completed. They seem tired of being alive.

I’m a member of of the European Understanding Tiredness of Life in Older People Research Network, a group of geriatricians, psychiatrists, social scientists, psychologists and death scholars. We want to better understand the phenomenon and unpick what is unique about it. The network is also working on advice for politicians and healthcare practices, as well as caregiver and patient support.

Professor of care ethics Els van Wijngaarden and colleagues in the Netherlands listened to a group of older people who were not seriously ill, yet felt a yearning to end their lives. The key issues they identified in such people were: aching loneliness, pain associated with not mattering, struggles with self-expression, existential tiredness, and fear of being reduced to a completely dependent state.

Older man walking in the autumn park
Being tired of life is a unique despair. SasaStock/Shutterstock

This need not be the consequence of a lifetime of suffering, or a response to intolerable physical pain. Tiredness of life also seems to arise in people who consider themselves to have lived fulfilling lives. One man of 92 told the network’s researchers:

You have no effect on anything. The ship sets sail and everyone has a job, but you just sail along. I am cargo to them. That’s not easy. That’s not me. Humiliation is too strong a word, but it is bordering on it. I simply feel ignored, completely marginalised.

Another man said:

Look at the condition of those old ladies in the building opposite. Gaunt and half-dead, pointlessly driven around in a wheelchair … It has nothing to do with being human anymore. It is a stage of life I simply don’t want to go through.

A unique suffering

The American novelist Philip Roth wrote that “old age is not a battle, old age is a massacre”. If we live long enough, we can lose our identity, physical capabilities, partner, friends and careers.

For some people, this elicits a deep-rooted sense that life has been stripped of meaning – and that the tools we need to rebuild a sense of purpose are irretrievable.

Care professor Helena Larsson and colleagues in Sweden have written about a gradual “turning out of the lights” in old age. They argue that people steadily let go of life, until they reach a point where they are ready to turn off the outside world. Larsson’s team raises the question of whether this might be inevitable for us all.

Of course, this sort of suffering shares characteristics (it’s depressing and painful) with anguish we encounter at other points in life. But it’s not the same. Consider the existential suffering that might arise from a terminal illness or recent divorce. In these examples, part of the suffering is connected to the fact that there is more of life’s voyage to make – but that the rest of the journey feels uncertain and no longer looks the way we fantasised it would.

This sort of suffering is often tied to mourning a future we feel we should have had, or fearing a future we are uncertain about. One of the distinctions in tiredness of life is that there is no desire for, or mourning of, a future; only a profound sense that the journey is over, yet drags on painfully and indefinitely.
The global view

In countries where euthanasia and assisted suicide are legal, doctors and researchers are debating whether tiredness of life meets the threshold for the sort of unceasing emotional suffering that grants people the right to euthanasia.

The fact that this problem is common enough for researchers to debate it may suggest that modern life has shut older people out of western society. Perhaps elders are no longer revered for their wisdom and experience. But it’s not inevitable. In Japan, age is seen as a spring or rebirth after a busy period of working and raising children. One study found older adults in Japan showed higher scores on personal growth compared with midlife adults, whereas the opposite age pattern was found in the US.

Surgeon and medical professor Atul Gawande argues that in western societies, medicine has created the ideal conditions for transforming ageing into a “long, slow fade”. He believes quality of life has been overlooked as we channel our resources towards biological survival. This is unprecedented in history. Tiredness of life may be evidence of the cost.

[titts82002]

How far is the runway....5, 10 or 20 years is something we can not predict with certainty.

History is the past, fuck it.

Future is something we don't know, fuck it.

Most important is now, today. Make the best of it.

Ya…
Live to our fullest :)

[titts82002]

I dun think you want to get into trouble and headline news...:)

Tried not to play anything dangerous including bungee jumping, fark like rabbits, ride a jetski or go yachting alone...:)


Hahahahahaha
Good one…

[titts82002]

Thank you Boss on your comments and thoughts

Growing old is not what it is made out to be. It's horrendous. This is why it is so important to fuck your brains out while you are still able. :D

https://theconversation.com/tiredness-of-life-the-growing-phenomenon-in-western-society-203934?utm_source=pocket-newtab#



Molly was 88 years old and in good health. She had outlived two husbands, her siblings, most of her friends and her only son.

“I don’t have any meaningful relationships left, dear,” she told me. “They’ve all died. And you know what? Underneath it all, I want to leave this world too.” Leaning a little closer, as though she was telling me a secret, she continued:

Shall I tell you what I am? I’m strong. I can admit to myself and to you that there’s nothing left for me here. I’m more than ready to leave when it’s my time. In fact, it can’t come quickly enough.

I’ve interviewed many older people for research. Every so often, I’m struck by the sincerity with which some people feel that their life is completed. They seem tired of being alive.

I’m a member of of the European Understanding Tiredness of Life in Older People Research Network, a group of geriatricians, psychiatrists, social scientists, psychologists and death scholars. We want to better understand the phenomenon and unpick what is unique about it. The network is also working on advice for politicians and healthcare practices, as well as caregiver and patient support.

Professor of care ethics Els van Wijngaarden and colleagues in the Netherlands listened to a group of older people who were not seriously ill, yet felt a yearning to end their lives. The key issues they identified in such people were: aching loneliness, pain associated with not mattering, struggles with self-expression, existential tiredness, and fear of being reduced to a completely dependent state.

Older man walking in the autumn park
Being tired of life is a unique despair. SasaStock/Shutterstock

This need not be the consequence of a lifetime of suffering, or a response to intolerable physical pain. Tiredness of life also seems to arise in people who consider themselves to have lived fulfilling lives. One man of 92 told the network’s researchers:

You have no effect on anything. The ship sets sail and everyone has a job, but you just sail along. I am cargo to them. That’s not easy. That’s not me. Humiliation is too strong a word, but it is bordering on it. I simply feel ignored, completely marginalised.

Another man said:

Look at the condition of those old ladies in the building opposite. Gaunt and half-dead, pointlessly driven around in a wheelchair … It has nothing to do with being human anymore. It is a stage of life I simply don’t want to go through.

A unique suffering

The American novelist Philip Roth wrote that “old age is not a battle, old age is a massacre”. If we live long enough, we can lose our identity, physical capabilities, partner, friends and careers.

For some people, this elicits a deep-rooted sense that life has been stripped of meaning – and that the tools we need to rebuild a sense of purpose are irretrievable.

Care professor Helena Larsson and colleagues in Sweden have written about a gradual “turning out of the lights” in old age. They argue that people steadily let go of life, until they reach a point where they are ready to turn off the outside world. Larsson’s team raises the question of whether this might be inevitable for us all.

Of course, this sort of suffering shares characteristics (it’s depressing and painful) with anguish we encounter at other points in life. But it’s not the same. Consider the existential suffering that might arise from a terminal illness or recent divorce. In these examples, part of the suffering is connected to the fact that there is more of life’s voyage to make – but that the rest of the journey feels uncertain and no longer looks the way we fantasised it would.

This sort of suffering is often tied to mourning a future we feel we should have had, or fearing a future we are uncertain about. One of the distinctions in tiredness of life is that there is no desire for, or mourning of, a future; only a profound sense that the journey is over, yet drags on painfully and indefinitely.
The global view

In countries where euthanasia and assisted suicide are legal, doctors and researchers are debating whether tiredness of life meets the threshold for the sort of unceasing emotional suffering that grants people the right to euthanasia.

The fact that this problem is common enough for researchers to debate it may suggest that modern life has shut older people out of western society. Perhaps elders are no longer revered for their wisdom and experience. But it’s not inevitable. In Japan, age is seen as a spring or rebirth after a busy period of working and raising children. One study found older adults in Japan showed higher scores on personal growth compared with midlife adults, whereas the opposite age pattern was found in the US.

Surgeon and medical professor Atul Gawande argues that in western societies, medicine has created the ideal conditions for transforming ageing into a “long, slow fade”. He believes quality of life has been overlooked as we channel our resources towards biological survival. This is unprecedented in history. Tiredness of life may be evidence of the cost.

[HonkyTonkyMan]

I will be 60 soon don't know if can qualify to be a "DOM", I used to have high libido, now its has mellowed a lot but doesn't mean I no longer have the urge. Difference for me is I won't drop everything just to have it satisfied unlike when I was younger.

[titts82002]

I will be 60 soon don't know if can qualify to be a "DOM", I used to have high libido, now its has mellowed a lot but doesn't mean I no longer have the urge. Difference for me is I won't drop everything just to have it satisfied unlike when I was younger.


There must still a lot of things to do..
Leave some legacies behind.. :)

[loneyheart]

No matter how old u r even yr below doesn't work well as b4 many still need TLC like hug hug ... touch touch ... love love ... kiss kiss ... zhut zhut .... still need to release once a week or 2 for better health :) IMHO

[fnulnu99]

Bro, I think once pass 40, we all qualify for the title "DOM" ! :D

I will be 60 soon don't know if can qualify to be a "DOM", I used to have high libido, now its has mellowed a lot but doesn't mean I no longer have the urge. Difference for me is I won't drop everything just to have it satisfied unlike when I was younger.

[ourworld]

Bro, I think once pass 40, we all qualify for the title "DOM" ! :D

DOM meaning?

[fnulnu99]

Dirty Old Man :p

DOM meaning?

[sky_liner2]

Always feeling easily fatigue and tired, and low in sex drive, heard that having Testosterone Cypionate Injection yearly may helps to feel young again. Just a thot......hope bros here can share experience and advice.

[titts82002]

Dirty Old Man :p



:D Hahahaha…

DOM or DOoM

[titts82002]

No matter how old u r even yr below doesn't work well as b4 many still need TLC like hug hug ... touch touch ... love love ... kiss kiss ... zhut zhut .... still need to release once a week or 2 for better health :) IMHO

Yes, clear stock is right, I think. Empty the barrel every week.
Can cut down chance of prostate cancer???

[airman]

Always feeling easily fatigue and tired, and low in sex drive, heard that having Testosterone Cypionate Injection yearly may helps to feel young again. Just a thot......hope bros here can share experience and advice.

I had the same issue as you until I have Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT) every quarterly.

No side effects but can boost sex drive and reduce fatigue.

PM me if you require my urologist's contact

[titts82002]

Always feeling easily fatigue and tired, and low in sex drive, heard that having Testosterone Cypionate Injection yearly may helps to feel young again. Just a thot......hope bros here can share experience and advice.


In my own way,
To keep myself always horny, it is to always thinking horny..
Plus take all the (killing me too, unhealthy on the other hand) foods that boost sexual hormones etc..

[loneyheart]

Keep see PRC men taking 枸杞子 with Ginger
Anyone tried n will it help ? :)

[Hurricane88]

Keep see PRC men taking 枸杞子 with Ginger
Anyone tried n will it help ? :)

Wolfberries are neither heaty nor cooling so neither yin nor yang...so adding ginger will make it heaty or yang...:)

Improves blood circulation...also plenty of antioxidants and vitamins...:)

Warning - watch how many to eat or drink per day...not all men can eat/drink daily...:)

[loneyheart]

Wolfberries are neither heaty nor cooling so neither yin nor yang...so adding ginger will make it heaty or yang...:)

Improves blood circulation...also plenty of antioxidants and vitamins...:)

Warning - watch how many to eat or drink per day...not all men can eat/drink daily...:)

Agreed bro ... for those with higher yang qi will not be suitable to 补 :)

[Splitter100]

I had the same issue as you until I have Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT) every quarterly.

No side effects but can boost sex drive and reduce fatigue.

PM me if you require my urologist's contact

How old to do this?

[airman]

How old to do this?

No age limit and also depends whether you can live without sex or not

Just visit an urologist as soon as you feel that you need help with your sexual health

[Peacekeeping]

No age limit and also depends whether you can live without sex or not

Just visit an urologist as soon as you feel that you need help with your sexual health

Actually it depends whether his oc can live without sex. For a man, low t means low sex drive. So no sex is not a problem. But married man has a duty to perform.

[titts82002]

I think for oldman, that is married, but with still high sex drive,

The wife has to be in pace with him, to try all sort of sexciting attempts,
So both don’t feel like performing a duty ?:)

[candle2000]

I think for oldman, that is married, but with still high sex drive,

The wife has to be in pace with him, to try all sort of sexciting attempts,
So both don’t feel like performing a duty ?:)

If the man always has high sex drive, get a wife 15 years or more younger than oneself.

If at 60 years old, wife is 45 years old and still can make love together regularly.
This is an ideal case :D

[titts82002]

If the man always has high sex drive, get a wife 15 years or more younger than oneself.

If at 60 years old, wife is 45 years old and still can make love together regularly.
This is an ideal case :D


Right, this can be another way.
:D

[airman]

If the man always has high sex drive, get a wife 15 years or more younger than oneself.

If at 60 years old, wife is 45 years old and still can make love together regularly.
This is an ideal case :D

I am 60 and my wife is 56 and we ml once a week

[loneyheart]

I am 60 and my wife is 56 and we ml once a week

Envy u bro n r blessed :)

[givope83]

more younger than oneself.

[titts82002]

I am 60 and my wife is 56 and we ml once a week

Awesome !!

:)

[airman]

Envy u bro n r blessed :)

Thanks! What about yourself?

[Peacekeeping]

I am 60 and my wife is 56 and we ml once a week

At 60 ml got juice come out?

[candle2000]

I am 60 and my wife is 56 and we ml once a week

You are a happily married husband and wife.

Seriously speaking, if a husband can make love to his wife regularly, there is no necessity to spend extra money looking for the paid services.

Sensible and smart wives must always emptied the "husbands ' soldiers" before they start or think to venture further.

When we (the men) grow old, we hope we can still make love with our wives :)

[airman]

At 60 ml got juice come out?

Why not?

Plenty of them if I do once a week

[FatCouchPotato]

Seriously speaking, if a husband can make love to his wife regularly, there is no necessity to spend extra money looking for the paid services

Ver well said

[Peacekeeping]

You are a happily married husband and wife.

Seriously speaking, if a husband can make love to his wife regularly, there is no necessity to spend extra money looking for the paid services.

Sensible and smart wives must always emptied the "husbands ' soldiers" before they start or think to venture further.

When we (the men) grow old, we hope we can still make love with our wives :)

I think when husband and wife can find the fire to make love with each other at that age, it’s much more than physical connection at play.

[titts82002]

Well said and agree,
Candle and peacekeeping

[traveller666]

Hi bro and sis,

Another self-reflection but quite silly question to some of you.
I have this query in my mind. your upmost opinions and thoughts will be upmost useful. Thank you

I am still an dirty oldman… not so old yet, but old.:D
However, I am still able to control my small head, not to do something silly.

What could happen, if becoming old that my big head cannot control over the dirty urge, and go into crazy acts.
Worst case, “ up lorry” or big big head shot picture is posted on newspaper crime page with title “ dirty oldman caught in the act! “

Sigh…

in 2024 technology era. i believe if we grow old we still able to have sex with some 20-30yo girls. this is how amazing this world is hahaa. you can start to learn how to be SD through https://sugarbook.com/. all the XMM can give you girl friend feel or bossku feel bro hahahaha. #OLDMANNEVERDIE:D