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Davidaa
19-06-2008, 03:52 AM
hi guys. i got a gf. but its always seems that i cum before she could even fully enjoy. any bright ideas on how to control? she loves to cow girl.:D
although we both are fat, we do enjoy being together. to me, she seems to be a high sex driven ger.:cool: and one more thing. any of u ever had heat rash at your dick?
Soulrunner
19-06-2008, 04:25 AM
I wanted to be a superb lover, able to give my partner all the pleasure she desired - which, for her, means reaching a fantastic orgasm through vaginal intercourse - while I also enjoyed the greatest possible pleasure I could during our lovemaking.
Love_Me_Tender
19-06-2008, 04:50 AM
Making love is a slow process for a woman and may have to start many hours in advance, by fondness and attention from the man she loves.
Women need a much longer foreplay than men. Start by whispering sweet words in her ear and fondling her all over her body, but not in the genital area
darkadvenger
19-06-2008, 07:59 AM
hi guys. i got a gf. but its always seems that i cum before she could even fully enjoy. any bright ideas on how to control? she loves to cow girl.:D
although we both are fat, we do enjoy being together. to me, she seems to be a high sex driven ger.:cool: and one more thing. any of u ever had heat rash at your dick?
one of my workplace fb told me that she make her hubby to put on condom.
less sensitive and therefore last longer...:p
the_e_ones
19-06-2008, 08:19 AM
one of my workplace fb told me that she make her hubby to put on condom.
less sensitive and therefore last longer...:p
Bro Davidaa, try Durex Performa, it has a special lubricant inside the condom that helps delay climax and prolongs sexual excitement for longer lasting lovemaking.
rainchezz
19-06-2008, 09:35 AM
bro ...
foreplay is the key .... you can try fingering her ... of cuz with kisses and frenching, etc .. the full works.
i normally make the gal cum 3-4 times thu fingering before fj.
Aurors
19-06-2008, 09:45 AM
Agree... longer foreplay is the key ... most men tend to jump straight in without foreplay which is the main grouse of women .. so have a long extended foreplay to make her super high first ...
Pokimon1
19-06-2008, 10:17 AM
hi guys. i got a gf. but its always seems that i cum before she could even fully enjoy. any bright ideas on how to control? she loves to cow girl.:D
although we both are fat, we do enjoy being together. to me, she seems to be a high sex driven ger.:cool: and one more thing. any of u ever had heat rash at your dick?
Call me. I will finish the job for you. Kekekek:)
(WhoDaresWin)
19-06-2008, 11:57 AM
Women need a much longer foreplay than men. Start by whispering sweet words in her ear and fondling her all over her body,
unger
19-06-2008, 12:16 PM
bro, like all other bros say, foreplay is the main and most important.
Try to have some drinks before you make out that will halp you a
little. But be the one in control of her do all you can do to make her
cum but please dont do SM. try it later when you know her perferrence
better. Eat her finger her all that you can do.
slyer
19-06-2008, 12:49 PM
focus on foreplay and get her aroused first by going for her sensitive areas. :p
Mr Banana
19-06-2008, 12:52 PM
if all else fails...invest in a toy...:D
s69ex
19-06-2008, 03:16 PM
if all else fails...invest in a toy...:D
yup.....is always the last straw....:)
jerrystockton
19-06-2008, 03:40 PM
TS, i like to have some beer or at least alcoholic drinks before I bonk. It's really work for me . U may wanna try..:cool:
Steadyman1
19-06-2008, 04:07 PM
Bro Davidaa, try Durex Performa, it has a special lubricant inside the condom that helps delay climax and prolongs sexual excitement for longer lasting lovemaking.
It will make the head numb and don't have much feel. That's how it prolong. Not shiok for guys..
Ask what most bros has suggested. Focus on foreplay.
Safra
19-06-2008, 07:39 PM
kiss, lick, suck, paint:p
tigerprawn
19-06-2008, 09:38 PM
and one more thing. any of u ever had heat rash at your dick?
So many bros have already commented on the control bit so I wont dwell into that, maybe just to add that it depends on individual. Some people just cum fast. But your problem is not physical, then more practice should help, as with every other thing in life practice makes perfect.
WRT your rash. Is it on your penis head? If so, and you do not have any other STD symptoms like pain when urinating, pus or sores etc, then it is probably balanitis. Basically an inflammation of the skin on your penis head. Could be due to various reasons. If you get this immediately after sex, and also have some itch on the foreskin (if you are not circumcised), then chances are this could be due to candida or thrush, or in layman terms yeast infection. Your gf may have yeast infection. Or it could be that she may have some other vagina infection eg. HPV. Or could even be that her vagina PH irritates your cock or you may have sensitive cock skin (are you prone to ezcema problems?). However, unless there are other symptoms, then it is in all likelihood not STD. But still if this symptom persists, you may wish to consult a doctor (you can call NSC and see specialist there) or if your gf wants to go for checkup with her gynae just to be sure. If it is yeast, your rash will just disappear by itself in a few days if you leave it alone but the next time you have sex will reappear again; if so, then she needs treatment and so do you so you wont spread it back to her then becomes vicious cycle. Whatever it is, there is only so much I can advise online with so little info. All the above is for your reference only. If you worry, please do seek professional medical consultation for peace of mind.
Take care bro :)
Davidaa
19-06-2008, 10:18 PM
wow. dats a lot of help to all the bros there.
btw. another question. how do you guys handle high sex drive gf? my gf is like almost everyday wants to have sex wif me. its as if she sucks out all my energy. She even learn to make me cum through sucking. but honestly, i do enjoy it man. its so addictive to cum in her mouth. :p
Naglene
20-06-2008, 08:31 PM
Give her what she need in sex.
Starlite
20-06-2008, 09:14 PM
Bro Davidaa, you should try to find out where's her sensitive points and focus it during the foreplay, so when she starts her riding, it is likely for her to achieve her orgasm faster. Then for you, probably let your gf do the riding so that you may delay yours from cuming.
Ichi06
20-06-2008, 09:58 PM
foreplay like many bros had mentioned! think some gals like to be rubbed gently at her clits..macham estacy like that lol.but still,up to u to explore and see what she enjoy..communication helps
Davidaa
20-06-2008, 11:24 PM
its hard rainchezz.... my gf know my weak spot too well. lolx. she may be plump but she is too gd to make me not cum fast :D
limpehlimpeh
21-06-2008, 11:01 AM
Brother Davidaa, like most brothers say alot of foreplay... do it all on her and not on yourself, it should keep you going longer. It works for me and hope it does help you too.
suteerak1099
21-06-2008, 01:39 PM
to the thread starter, love making is nt all about 1self. knowing well that u;ve got a shorter endurance timeline towards climax, then u should set a handicap n get her warmed up 1st. foreplay is 1 key process to get her there, or perhaps multiple times in a session.
nt only do u get her to the highest peak, it also matters on how u get her there + how often u get her there. once u discover n master it, there's little chance she'd find pleasure in any other encounters.
if ever she dumps u for another chap, u can b sure she'd be regretting the decision, n begging for a 2nd chance w u again. or at the very least, offer to be a fb instead.
SeAHuM
23-06-2008, 12:08 AM
Out of the many gfs, I only have 1 of them who can cum during intercourse, and we can arranged it to come together. Shiok!
The rest basically only clitoris stimulation. I make it a point to make them cum before proceeding to fuck them.
Schneider
23-06-2008, 10:02 PM
....... my gf is like almost everyday wants to have sex wif me. its as if she sucks out all my energy. She even learn to make me cum through sucking. but honestly, i do enjoy it man. its so addictive to cum in her mouth. :p
Bro, I envied you. I wished my OC is like your gf. Can CIM some more.
easybaby
27-06-2008, 06:47 PM
Foreplay. :D It's very important! Be sure to observe carefully what she reacts to, e.g. if she gives out soft moans when you suck her nipples, it probably means that she likes it, so you do it more often.
Communication. Speak to each other during love making, tell her what you like, praise her when she does it well (it can be from "I like that baby" to just moaning, coz you see, some ladies enjoy it when they feel capable of pleasing their partners). Gradually, she may open up and tell you about what she enjoys you doing.
Good luck :)
tenggiri
29-06-2008, 03:58 PM
Foreplay. :D It's very important! Be sure to observe carefully what she reacts to, e.g. if she gives out soft moans when you suck her nipples, it probably means that she likes it, so you do it more often.
Good luck :)
Yes i agree with you and the many other bros who highlighted on more foreplay. :D I kno we are not very attentive at most times but it pays to be diffrent here. Try to vary yr technics and observe her reactions to them. Lots of fun!
As for making our partner(s) orgas during intercourse we have to be able to 'tahan' pumping for some time, say at least 10mins right?? i understand its not easy for some, me included, but practice is the key.
Try masturbating until you are just about to shoot then stop and mentally squeeze yr sperm back in. After 2 mins repeat this process. Before long, you should be able to perform like John Holmes!! :eek:
Like most bros have said, pay full attention on foreplay, when she is ready she will invite you in or else she would be telling you where else to focus at. When time is ripe she will come for your didi. Next let her do the riding so that she can fully control the direction of penetration that may yield better result. At least my gf love it....
sevensins
29-06-2008, 08:12 PM
Anymore good suggestions?
Torres_Mok
29-06-2008, 11:15 PM
Try masturbating until you are just about to shoot then stop and mentally squeeze yr sperm back in. After 2 mins repeat this process. Before long, you should be able to perform like John Holmes!! :eek:
gd advice. :D
Bro,
Always remember,the biggest sex organ is your mind....same for gals,so juz find out if yr GF like to tok dirty or like watever type of foreplay or hear something u say tat could turn her on.....and of coz u must not enjoy when u r poking her and think of something else....tat method helps....for me at least
PussyShaver
30-06-2008, 01:07 AM
hi guys. i got a gf. but its always seems that i cum before she could even fully enjoy. any bright ideas on how to control? she loves to cow girl.:D
although we both are fat, we do enjoy being together. to me, she seems to be a high sex driven ger.:cool:
What about trying to shave her pussy during sex ?
Henri
30-06-2008, 01:58 AM
hhhmmm its boils down to the 6 senses apparently
Not a big problem there u have. not on the rash i mean.
There are quite a few factors. It can be the surroundings, the lighting, ur and her mood, the fragrance around.
i think you may be quite new to sex.
It happens to me before.
Just to articulate a bit more.
Making out to the girl i always like and totally my kind.
Gorgeous, always smiley, sweet, long straight hair, smooth skin, even making sure there water and enough tissue around. The dim lights, the room mate ironing clothes near the locked door. The Grade 'A' hygenie from the both of us. The foreplay.
Imagine absorbing all the senses to the brain when doing the game. The body will react accordingly.
It either u lower the thrill level to prolong or u up ur will power.
It may be u dont use rubber and 1 day she enforce on u. The stakes are different. The outcome of the game may be different
Think win win.
She makes u come. Its great.
Dont be shy to communicate to her. She may have a lot to say to u.
To narrow down, it may be the position. Try doggie which u have all the control rather than cowgirl.
On sex be very creative and constantly have new tricks.
Nothing is garantee.
Its like why people are addicted to sex or gambling.
Its a mind thing. Use ur mind to the Optimum.
Turn the factors around you to ur advantage.
Imagine she says we did it. like what my ex turns around quickly and say.
The joy on her face. its lik watchin soccer the cheering.
I may have side track a bit or some info have appeared before.
Hope it helps!
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