Extramarital relationship with married women

[TamKorSang]

Hi Bros,

I've had 2 relationships with married women, current one still running, and a few flings too, don't know why, all married women.

How common is this? I mean a long running relationship with a woman who's gotta go home to another man. How do you deal with it? Sure abstinence is the best method of non-sh** incurrence, but thats beyond me now.

Just wanna gather some bro's views (knowing possibly flak is on the way) and also experiences.

[unsung80]

DOn't let their husband found out, if not you may never log in to Sammyboy to talk about it. :D

[SapienKia]

I only had this experience once, 5 year back and it lasted for about 6 months nia, as she got preggie from me and had secret abortion so hubby won't know, after that stop...

While in it quick shiok, so called forbidden fruit .. but after it ended n on hindsight, quite risky, everything on the line ... wat happen if she ki siao wanna keep baby n divorce hubby ... eeks

[Midnightiger]

I had 2 experiences of extramarital affairs several years back. Let's call them A & B.

For A, then I was posted to KL and whenever I'm back, we had our regular sessions. It was really good. She even introduced her family to me, like her hubby, children and even parents saying I'm her collegue from her previous job (planned story).

As time went on, I started to feel uncomfortable. It's OK if I don't know anyone in her family, but once introduced, even her hubby was becoming more like a friend.

I talked to her to stop explaining the reasons but she still doesn't want to. So I planned to make her stop seeing me by asking for a large monetary loan thinkiing that it might turn her off. What do you know? I received a cheque from her hubby for it!

Then one day, on my regular trip back to Singapore, I was arrested for an investigation of CBT and was held in remand in Tanglin Police Station (near KK Hospital) for 2 nights! Apparently, her husband found out during a quarrel with her and she said something like I was a better lover than him. Damn! So in the end, both of them went to report me saying the amount in the cheque was for something they bought but I took it, etc.

Investigation cleared me, but it was one hell of an experience!

If you think the experience with A was bad, wait til you hear the experience with B.

[Glen2712]

I talked to her to stop explaining the reasons but she still doesn't want to. So I planned to make her stop seeing me by asking for a large monetary loan thinkiing that it might turn her off. What do you know? I received a cheque from her hubby for it!

Then one day, on my regular trip back to Singapore, I was arrested for an investigation of CBT and was held in remand in Tanglin Police Station (near KK Hospital) for 2 nights! Apparently, her husband found out during a quarrel with her and she said something like I was a better lover than him. Damn! So in the end, both of them went to report me saying the amount in the cheque was for something they bought but I took it, etc.

Investigation cleared me, but it was one hell of an experience!

If you think the experience with A was bad, wait til you hear the experience with B.


Yikes~ Hell Hath No Fury Like A Woman's Scorn.

[CLee2]

I had 2 experiences of extramarital affairs several years back. Let's call them A & B.

If you think the experience with A was bad, wait til you hear the experience with B.

Sorry to hear about your bad experience. What happened with B ?

[kane30s]

waiting for story with B

[GTOKING]

Hi Bros,

I've had 2 relationships with married women, current one still running, and a few flings too, don't know why, all married women.

How common is this? I mean a long running relationship with a woman who's gotta go home to another man. How do you deal with it? Sure abstinence is the best method of non-sh** incurrence, but thats beyond me now.

Just wanna gather some bro's views (knowing possibly flak is on the way) and also experiences.

I always not agree to stick any relationship to the married women.
This is like you create a fire at your ass-hole ....is very dangerous games
In this world there is many single woman , syt for us to run on
Why need married woman ?

Just for my opinion , do not play fire......
dont forget one day you will married also

[Bambie]

I always not agree to stick any relationship to the married women.
This is like you create a fire at your ass-hole ....is very dangerous games
In this world there is many single woman , syt for us to run on
Why need married woman ?

Just for my opinion , do not play fire......
dont forget one day you will married also

What you say is true, can you imagine maybe one of the woman mention here might be a samster's wife :eek:

Maybe fellow cheongster, then one day find our .... how ah ...

[Bronco]

I always not agree to stick any relationship to the married women.
This is like you create a fire at your ass-hole ....is very dangerous games
In this world there is many single woman , syt for us to run on
Why need married woman ?

Just for my opinion , do not play fire......
dont forget one day you will married also

Bro, fully agree with u..married woman can see but better dun touch and play play especially our local woman full of evil thought in their mind.U dun know when u lying on the road side or both hands or legs kena break by their hubby in 1 day...:eek:

[no_faith]

yes, it is not gd to play wif fire but if the gal is not a willing party, our bro cant do anything.
furthermore, a fresh meat was offered to your mouth, wont u eat it?

im tinking will there be crisis for marriage in the future?

[usmjordan2]

I always not agree to stick any relationship to the married women.
This is like you create a fire at your ass-hole ....is very dangerous games
In this world there is many single woman , syt for us to run on
Why need married woman ?

Just for my opinion , do not play fire......
dont forget one day you will married also

Well said , brother GTO

I strongly agree with your statement,
In this world , there is many SYT , single lady

Dont because of the few sec , distroy people family

Cheers , carry on to the single lady:D

[no_faith]

on the good side, i agreed tat we shd not destroy other ppl marriage or happiness. dun care wat others do wif her. wo tui de qi zi ji de liang xin.
i can slp soundly wif no guilt.

on the evil side, u rejected her and she will continue to look for other playmate. she is doing a self destruction on her marriage anyway. how come no1 pointing @ her? if u dun eat, ppl also will eat. why not u?


these are my tots. sumtimes humans are really facing dilemma.
sumtimes really hard to judge wat is right and wrong?:(

[iPhone]

best if can avoid many heart may be broke :)

[Simon Monster]

I had extramarital relationship with married women (two to be exact) many years back and I had my retribution - what goes around, comes around. Fortunately, I managed to salvage my marriage and promised no more affair or ONS with married woman. Nowadays, I only go for commercial sex. Pay, Fxxk and forget it. :)

[GTOKING]

on the evil side, u rejected her and she will continue to look for other playmate. she is doing a self destruction on her marriage anyway. how come no1 pointing @ her? if u dun eat, ppl also will eat. why not u?


these are my tots. sumtimes humans are really facing dilemma.
sumtimes really hard to judge wat is right and wrong?:(

Brother , sometimes before we do anything , we should ask ourself is it OK or NOT.....you had pointed out the good point here ......
" sometimes humans are really facing dilemma ".....dont assume ppl also will eat , at least this should stop at our side , further more if u happen to meet this type of married woman , please advise her to make clear the relationship with her husband before carry on.

Trust me , is this world .......so many way for u and me to release
why must we take married woman ? unless u really love her for life time , u will take over her hubby job , then i got nothing to say.........if just for few sec ,,,,,,,,,better look for others

Dont destroy ppl family and end up will regret for the life time. ( can be very serious affected the family member and children )

Cheers , move on to do things u wont feel regret and make yourself feel comfortable.

[curious75]

Brother , sometimes before we do anything , we should ask ourself is it OK or NOT.....you had pointed out the good point here ......
" sometimes humans are really facing dilemma ".....dont assume ppl also will eat , at least this should stop at our side , further more if u happen to meet this type of married woman , please advise her to make clear the relationship with her husband before carry on.

Trust me , is this world .......so many way for u and me to release
why must we take married woman ? unless u really love her for life time , u will take over her hubby job , then i got nothing to say.........if just for few sec ,,,,,,,,,better look for others

Dont destroy ppl family and end up will regret for the life time. ( can be very serious affected the family member and children )

Cheers , move on to do things u wont feel regret and make yourself feel comfortable.




bros,

totally agree with you.

i had a incident b4,i pick her up from a pub not knowing she is married.when we are both naked and i abt to bonk,her hp rang and its her hubby:eek: .after she finish her call,i tell her to wear back her clothing and go back home.to me i feel,we can bonk any ladies even they are attached but not married women.just to share hope no hard feeling:)

[Bambie]

bros,

totally agree with you.

i had a incident b4,i pick her up from a pub not knowing she is married.when we are both naked and i abt to bonk,her hp rang and its her hubby:eek: .after she finish her call,i tell her to wear back her clothing and go back home.to me i feel,we can bonk any ladies even they are attached but not married women.just to share hope no hard feeling:)
Bro you the can. Even though I incline towards not messing with married women. If in your situation, I sure eat first since already in middle of it ....

I suppose we can't really blame some bros, am sure some people get adrenaline rush bonking other people's wife.

[humpcheepang]

...after she finish her call,i tell her to wear back her clothing and go back home.to me i feel,we can bonk any ladies even they are attached but not married women.just to share hope no hard feeling:)

I SALUTE to you Bro! U r one good guy.

As said in previous posts, IF YOU DO NOT WANT SOMEONE TO POKE YOUR WIFE, DO NOT POKE SOMEONE'S WIFE TOO.

But stories (true or fake) from bros are still good stories to read.......

[GTOKING]

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IF YOU DO NOT WANT SOMEONE TO POKE YOUR WIFE, DO NOT POKE SOMEONE'S WIFE TOO.


Good Golden Word ..........:D

[anton]

bros,

totally agree with you.

i had a incident b4,i pick her up from a pub not knowing she is married.when we are both naked and i abt to bonk,her hp rang and its her hubby:eek: .after she finish her call,i tell her to wear back her clothing and go back home.to me i feel,we can bonk any ladies even they are attached but not married women.just to share hope no hard feeling:)

You did something which not many bro can do..... well, maybe just me... and a few others..

[BMW520_M]

bros,

totally agree with you.

i had a incident b4,i pick her up from a pub not knowing she is married.when we are both naked and i abt to bonk,her hp rang and its her hubby:eek: .after she finish her call,i tell her to wear back her clothing and go back home.to me i feel,we can bonk any ladies even they are attached but not married women.just to share hope no hard feeling:)


Agree TOTALLY. Why must touch married woman when singles are everywhere!!!!

[donnieboi]

Even in a society that is more open now and everyone is having open relationships. i think its better to leave someone's wife alone, but how many can excercise self-control when in the arms of a beautiful woman in heat?

Just be safe and play safe if that happens! :p

[ahkoo]

Agree TOTALLY. Why must touch married woman when singles are everywhere!!!!

I agree with you also. but if the married women come to you how!!
my lady boss alway want me to send her home n my boss alway oversea.

[adonis]

Hello TamKorSang, Midnightiger. How did you both originally find your married women and how did you develop the relationships that led to bed? Thanks.

[lovetoplay]

I strongly agree with your statement,
In this world , there is many SYT , single lady

Cheers , carry on to the single lady:D

bro, u know so many SYT, single lady, intro to me le:p

[Wins88]

I personally feel that it is wrong to "touch" someone else's wife. While I was divorced and happily dating and upping many SYT's, I met a lady who I always thought was single. She has a appetite similar to that of a nympho and the sex was amazing! However, after 2 tiring weeks of amazing sex, she opened up to me that she was married! It took all my willpower to put a stop to the liason and in fact advised her to go back to her husband. I never did touch her once from the time I learnt she was a married women! I feel that no man should ever wear "green hat". Of course, it is simply my own point of view.

[sex4LiFe]

My current FB is married.. but we've been FB before she get to know her hubby.. so far, I've always tell her that anytime she's uncomfortable with it, we can stop. And so far, we've only cut down on the times we meet in a month.. but the "relationship" is still going on.

I know she has a thing for me, but I've always make clear to her she's not someone I will fall for and she's aware of that.. it's just purely and only for sex. By the way, I'm married too..

I guess to be involved with a married woman, both have to understand that it is purely for PHYSICAL PLEASURE, not emotional support. So unless you both can control your own emotions, it's best to avoid it. As thrilling as it might sounds, the consequences can be fatal.

[curious75]

I SALUTE to you Bro! U r one good guy.

As said in previous posts, IF YOU DO NOT WANT SOMEONE TO POKE YOUR WIFE, DO NOT POKE SOMEONE'S WIFE TOO.

But stories (true or fake) from bros are still good stories to read.......

BROS,

at that time and now,i'm afraid being humtam by someone's hubby,if ask friend to humtam back all my friends will look down on me so i keep my hands off married women but eye still enjoying those chio wan.

during my twenties,cheong alot.after knowing some women at nightspot,knowing can be ons and wanted to until someone told me she is married then leave the prey and go for the available that suit me,better be safe than sorry:)

[no_faith]

imho, nxt time encounter married woman, advise them dun destroy your family/marriage wif your own hands.

[laodi123456789]

If everyone is advised to stay away from married ladies, then should we ask all the girls to stay away from married men?

[no_faith]

actually itz depend on individual.
sum dun care at all abt the guilt.
sum wan to slp soundly.

sure ppl will advise gals to stay away from married guys cuz many single guys out there.
should we advise married guys/gals not to fool ard outside?

[curious75]

for man we will fxxk and think or think and fxxk but for women,once they are in it they will only fxxk and fxxk.

a friends(name as A) i knew,he always go for married women(name as MW) especially ppl ard him whom he knows(we ave been avoiding him as much as we can and he keep telling his so called proud stories of his bonking with MW).there is this MW we know(also know her hubby) happen to have a housewarming.when MW bring A ard holding his hand :eek: at second or third storey of her house not afraid that her hubby might see it.worst is she can ask money from her hubby to borrow to A during he is tight

there you see,women cant control as they only know fxxk n fxxk.but for man,we will not bring our KC or FB to show ard especially in front of our family or relative,right?

just to share,hope no offence:)

[no_faith]

a friends(name as A) i knew,he always go for married women(name as MW) especially ppl ard him whom he knows
he such a LJL lah.

[TamKorSang]

For all the Bros who have contributed your views here, thanks.

To those who have had such relationships, I have these few questions:

1. How long did they go on for?
2. When / how did the relationship end?

[triple h]

better to steer clear from married ones.....i got caught in ths trap...too much emotions, though she was a gem, i couldnt break up our marriages just for lust.
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoo

[GTOKING]

If everyone is advised to stay away from married ladies, then should we ask all the girls to stay away from married men?

haha , all the man know and advise not to touch to married woman.
the other ways all the woman also advise that not to stick to married man.

cheers:D

[goodfun]

to me is wrong to get one self involving wif married women,why hurt others and might pay a higher price for just a few bonk? it is more than moral issue it is a big issue u cant take care of it well it will hurt u back if not the whole family will be hurt just because a few bonks...its is worse than toying the feeling of a WL!:mad:

Peolpe are toying the feeling of other people wife or some people kids mother,knn when u sian got think or not,well i myself ever in such case normally the gals take iniative but u must control cause it is not a path to take...

Some times women might have some qurrel with the husband or etc that they are not happy,dont help them to make the wrong decision for not every husband will tiam tiam one,just wouldnt want people to fall into unnesscery problem,just my thought no offence,cheers;)

[GTOKING]

All brothers, you gain my respect and others too.
always remember we are the professional player.

ALWAYS PLAY IN PROFESSIONAL STANDARD
cheers

[WillamSexsphere]

Time out for a reality check.

1. Why would a supposedly happily married women will want an extramarital relationship?

Answer: She feels she is not happily married. There are shortcommings in the relationship, thus she starts to look around.

2. What are these 'shortcommings' that she feels, rightly or wrongly in a relationship?

Answer:- Some of the more common reasons,
1. Husband cheating on her.
2. Husband not spending enough time with her.
3. Husband not romantic, would rather play comp than chat with her.
4. Husband not earning enuff to feed the family or chipping in enough.
5. Husband shows no sign of love to her.
6. Husband leads a sedantry boring life, never take her out.
7. Husband abuses her.
8. Husband abandon her.

Notice i left out sex, cos most women are not as horny as men and it is very rare as a cause for infidelity.

An affair often starts rather innocently, perhaps thru long lost friends, collegues, share the same transport, etc - the point is, it starts with someone close, could even be a husband's best buddy. She just wants someone to confide to, to hear a man's view, but not all men practices self control and remember not to touch someone else's wife.

In that innocent moment of confiding to each other, the hearts open and each becomes lost, a line of communications open only to each other and all else is forgotten, finding comfort in each other momentarily.

For the guy who is only a player, he will definately feel no guilt, only 'ho say ah, tand tio!' (translated: yahoo! gain something). For the guy who is innocent, a natural weakness which is very difficult to overcome,more so if the woman is damn chio and teary, will feel a hell lotta guilt once the bedding or touching is over.

Such affairs do not last very long, for both know it is wrong, to break the fidelity oath. Either one of them will initiate it, and the dumped party will feel very hurt, more so if it is the guy being dumped, for he cant do anything about it to improve the relationship or he's gonna hurt everyone if he comes clean before the husband.

In the end, such affairs only bring emptiness, for the married woman belongs to another. It is only a moment's folly, an escape into a beautiful interlude, a fantasy to cherish in her humdrum lonely life, and in the end, she will return to the man and give him a chance, for he is one she loved, enough to get married to.

For her to divorce would mean she would join you in matrimony, a responsibility the player will shirk, a responsibility the innocent will not dare to accept for her virtue and faithfulness is suspect unless he loves her a lot.

Rather than to tell other men to keep away from their wives, i believe that the husband should do his part too, to ensure her needs are met. Of course, if the husband had done his best and the wife still wanna be unfaithful, better to hand her over to be another man's problem and find yourself someone more appreciative.

Despite what i had written, i still support the institution of marriage - best not to get involve with married women and interfere with another's life, for one get only one sided view of the marital issue and may not be partial enough to be objective in offering 'help'.


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[curious75]

there was once during my ns time,my friend's sis in law had an affair with another man.at that time a number of us volunteer to wack that fellow,when we are about to start the action,his brother stop us and want to have a talk with that man first.to our surprise,that fellow doesnt know the women he bonk is married,so his brother let him off and give him a warning after that.

so i was thinking,if his brother didnt stop us,the fellow kena wack by us is it consider sway or ..............also becos of this case,that the reason i keep reminding myself not to meddle with married women:)

just a question to ask,you go to ktv,fl.or whatever etc(for paying of cos) and happen to met your friend's wife:eek: (your friend dont know abt it) and take it she is damn chio,will you still bonk even you have paid for the secssion.

[dap26]

just a question to ask,you go to ktv,fl.or whatever etc(for paying of cos) and happen to met your friend's wife:eek: (your friend dont know abt it) and take it she is damn chio,will you still bonk even you have paid for the secssion.


For me,i rather choose other gals..If u still consider him as yr frd,for me i dun tik i will bonk somemore is his wife...Since they r so many gals out there despite of the fact that she is chio..

[GTOKING]

Today news at lian he zhao bao dated : 10 JUl 07

At malaysia - Penang

one small girl age : 3 years old killed by a married woman and her boy friend

the married woman and her husband just arrange the divorce but their 3 years old child been killed by the married woman and her boy friend

Why they divorce ? because of the boy friend ?
Why the married woman and her boy friend kill the small girl ?

Let the police go and investigate ..........

Really not a human for this couple

[no_faith]

i cant imagine how a MOTHER CAN KILL HER OWN FLESH AND BLOOD.
juz like how a sg case last time where a mother offer her young daughter to her bf.

crazy

[curious75]

he such a LJL lah.

YES,he is.i think he know he wont get back the same treatment cos his wife is dead,that why he keep going like that.

[GTOKING]

i cant imagine how a MOTHER CAN KILL HER OWN FLESH AND BLOOD.
juz like how a sg case last time where a mother offer her young daughter to her bf.

crazy

brother , this is call

" SICK "

[john99]

As for the Penang case, I don't think the mother killed her own daughter but the boyfriend did the killing by drowning her in a bath tub while she was out of the house. Imagine holding a child down under water while she is fighting for her life. This guy is a real bastard and he will get his just deserts while waiting for the hangman. What other prisoners and prison guards detest most are child killers and rapists.

The stupid wife abetted in the crime where she will be sent to the gallows if convicted.

I do not understand why they have to kill the innocent girl; since she is already in the midst of divorcing her husband. She should have given custody to her ex-husband.

If they are convicted , they will be hanged which is what they deserve for taking an innocent life.

[no_faith]

there are lotsa sick ppl outside.
does the report suggest they are of any race?

[GTOKING]

there are lotsa sick ppl outside.
does the report suggest they are of any race?

The report stated they are " chinese "

[GTOKING]

This guy is a real bastard and he will get his just deserts while waiting for the hangman. What other prisoners and prison guards detest most are child killers and rapists.

I do not understand why they have to kill the innocent girl; since she is already in the midst of divorcing her husband. She should have given custody to her ex-husband.

If they are convicted , they will be hanged which is what they deserve for taking an innocent life.

Agreed , why they have to kill the innocent girl ?

Just hang the bloody idiot , not human for taking an innocent life.
sorry for my emotion out of control , every time i read this news i will get mad

[laodi123456789]

always remember we are the professional player.

ALWAYS PLAY IN PROFESSIONAL STANDARD
cheers



I am thinking about putting this in my signature - very inspirational. We are the professionals!!

Some samsters think its safer for married men to have ons with married women. MAD doctrine ensures there won't be trouble later.

[curious75]

all bros;

do you agree women are wicked than man?like the case in penang,if the other way round,will man react in the same way like the stupid married women.to me,i think only women will do such things.(like the case in sg,wang na still remember? i think the prc mother also got problem) just to share

[GTOKING]

I am thinking about putting this in my signature - very inspirational. We are the professionals!!

Some samsters think its safer for married men to have ons with married women. MAD doctrine ensures there won't be trouble later.

Haha , go ahead brother, the best signature so far:D

[applekia]

well bros... having affair with married women may leads to such sad endings and its dangerous for all bros also. I personally wont want it to be done to mi in future when im married.. same to all bros out there rite? take note ba