concern on mastrubate situation

[firstsign81]

I am 37 years old. Now, Married have a 1 yr old kid. Mostly Sometimes a day, I feel Sexually intention to do as Sex. But Wife seem very tired due to our kid and work. We hug and talk when we can but having sex seems hard. i love her and we even try to plan but either end up distracted or didnt go for it.

I never had any sex relations with anyone. I end up I mastrubate once or sometimes twice a Day, Everyday & it became tired & energy less body even I personally felt that After Mastrubate A weakness happened in body. Even event end up waking at 3 am to do it. I scare i have addiction to mastrubate because it gives as satisfaction or stress out of sex. I can control but after some days I started feel addiction and feel like finding another female party. So again to prevent adulty i mastrubate again. Should I control or do it once in a week or in once in 15 days, will it be healthy to never have mastrubate or have it sometimes. Now I just want to know that mastrubate is good or bad for married men or how many times should to mastrubate in a month.

[seanylit]

nothing wrong with masturbating.. once a day/once a week/once a month is up to you :D

I am 37 years old. Now, Married have a 1 yr old kid. Mostly Sometimes a day, I feel Sexually intention to do as Sex. But Wife seem very tired due to our kid and work. We hug and talk when we can but having sex seems hard. i love her and we even try to plan but either end up distracted or didnt go for it.
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Should I control or do it once in a week or in once in 15 days, will it be healthy to never have mastrubate or have it sometimes. Now I just want to know that mastrubate is good or bad for married men or how many times should to mastrubate in a month.

[comm]

Try once a week....

[kpkblppl2]

I am 37 years old. Now, Married have a 1 yr old kid. Mostly Sometimes a day, I feel Sexually intention to do as Sex. But Wife seem very tired due to our kid and work. We hug and talk when we can but having sex seems hard. i love her and we even try to plan but either end up distracted or didnt go for it.

I never had any sex relations with anyone. I end up I mastrubate once or sometimes twice a Day, Everyday & it became tired & energy less body even I personally felt that After Mastrubate A weakness happened in body. Even event end up waking at 3 am to do it. I scare i have addiction to mastrubate because it gives as satisfaction or stress out of sex. I can control but after some days I started feel addiction and feel like finding another female party. So again to prevent adulty i mastrubate again. Should I control or do it once in a week or in once in 15 days, will it be healthy to never have mastrubate or have it sometimes. Now I just want to know that mastrubate is good or bad for married men or how many times should to mastrubate in a month.

Still young and healthy no concern for masturbating.:D

Have you discussed with your wife about your needs? If not then start talking.

See if there is somebody to help take care of baby for a few hours per week or per day. Also try to help wife at night and let here rest early by putting baby to sleep at a regular routine time. Baby likes routine and start planning.

Start helping and planning. You will see your wife gets more rest and more willing to have sex.

[niahkong]

Try going for massage with happy-endings

[Tarmacs]

There seems to be nothing wrong with what you are doing bro

[cheesie]

Need to help lady have time to rest and relax. Usually lady keep thinking of kid and unable to make love. Mentally still attach to kid even if kid is safely sleeping.
Need to help her with time, rest and also feels safe so making love can be possible. Otherwise is just you and her mind is still worry over kid.

[power69]

nothing wrong with masturbating.. once a day/once a week/once a month is up to you :D

once a day , brain get spoilt n empty

[samster101]

TS,
I think you should talk to your wife about your sexual needs. Help her out with household chores and the kid. If she is busy doing those, sure no mood/energy for sex. Good luck.

[TheEye]

Masturbation is good for men's health

[LustCaution]

Don't masturbate until you have no cum to shoot

[loneyheart]

Try to train yr kid to sleep early so u can hv more time w yr wife

[maman]

TS,
I think you should talk to your wife about your sexual needs. Help her out with household chores and the kid. If she is busy doing those, sure no mood/energy for sex. Good luck.

Good advice, you should do so, talk to your wife and discuss how both of you can work it out.

[firstsign81]

well sometimes its so bad...until i feel so wrong...will find time to talk to her

[Superfluid]

Nothing wrong to Masturbate, but WTF is Mastrubate?

Ok, spelling aside, you are such a good boy, TS. As in all good friends will tell you, don't look for flings or go for commercial sex....

...but it's ok if no one knows you done it.... ;)

[seanylit]

once a day , brain get spoilt n empty

no wonder i fail my sec school exams !!!!!!

[newyorker88]

well sometimes its so bad...until i feel so wrong...will find time to talk to her


Yes, I think you need to talk with your wife. If she is too tired( due to caring for kid), that normal. Give her the emotional need, massage her lightly and she will feel more comfortable, and let things fall in naturally.

Find sometime out for just both of you together. Like dropping the kid at your parents place, or when the kid goes for extra class or something.

Hope it turns out well for both of you as such situation will lead to many unwanted quarrels or misunderstanding in long run, when both party needs are not met.

[Haybee]

Masturbation is good for men's health

Agree with you on this

[Pockypig]

TS, I had gone thru your stage.
Masturbate ease but it doesn't really satisfy your need.
治票不治本。
In long run, it will affect you mentally and physically negatively.

After trying everything with your wife fail, u might want to outsource liao. Just clean your mouth and go home be your good father/husband.

[SueYourAss]

Try to help look after the kid, feed the kid with sleeping pill so that he can sleep soundly and you and your wife will have a wonderful sexy time together.

if wife still feels tired, then go visit massage palour with special service so you can solve your personally needs :D

[mikek]

Don't give the kid sleeping pills!!! You can arrange for a baby sitter to take care of the kid for a few hours. Don't you have relatives who can care for the kid for a few hours?
Plan an outing with your wife during those hours and you both will have a great time.

[ppika]

Hi,

I guess jerking off occasionally is ok but if it becomes an addiction then its a problem bro.
As wat the other bros said, u try talking to ur missy to find out wats making her so stressed up, maybe helping her wif the house chores abit or helping to feed the baby.
As the saying goes '' Guys need sex to relieve stress but ladies need to relieve stress in order to have sex''

[lickNpoke]

All cocks must exercise to stay in shape. just like weight training, if you don’t use it... you simply lose it. The cock also needs nutrients to keep its tissues and blood vessels healthy. So it sometimes erect to keep its strength. It even needs proper hormones to promote the proper flow of blood. Just think of it as a “training” regiment before the big screw with a vagina. The occasional pipe cleaning keeps men happy and their dicks healthy.

Health freaks claim self-pleasuring shows your body is in a healthy state. Some doctors even encourages masturbation to improve sexual experiences and to promote the health of the dicks.

So go for it as and when the urge comes and be at peace with it. Be proud and not ashame. If men are not suppose to masturbate then mother nature will position our dicks on our back rendering masturbation totally impossible instead of our groin region to be easily mess with by us.

[drag28nick]

All cocks must exercise to stay in shape. just like weight training, if you don’t use it... you simply lose it. The cock also needs nutrients to keep its tissues and blood vessels healthy. So it sometimes erect to keep its strength. It even needs proper hormones to promote the proper flow of blood. Just think of it as a “training” regiment before the big screw with a vagina. The occasional pipe cleaning keeps men happy and their dicks healthy.

Health freaks claim self-pleasuring shows your body is in a healthy state. Some doctors even encourages masturbation to improve sexual experiences and to promote the health of the dicks.

So go for it as and when the urge comes and be at peace with it. Be proud and not ashame. If men are not suppose to masturbate then mother nature will position our dicks on our back rendering masturbation totally impossible instead of our groin region to be easily mess with by us.

very well said. haha

[goldie9660]

All cocks must exercise to stay in shape. just like weight training, if you don’t use it... you simply lose it. The cock also needs nutrients to keep its tissues and blood vessels healthy. So it sometimes erect to keep its strength. It even needs proper hormones to promote the proper flow of blood. Just think of it as a “training” regiment before the big screw with a vagina. The occasional pipe cleaning keeps men happy and their dicks healthy.

Health freaks claim self-pleasuring shows your body is in a healthy state. Some doctors even encourages masturbation to improve sexual experiences and to promote the health of the dicks.

So go for it as and when the urge comes and be at peace with it. Be proud and not ashame. If men are not suppose to masturbate then mother nature will position our dicks on our back rendering masturbation totally impossible instead of our groin region to be easily mess with by us.

Totally agree with what you said. Guys are always guys and we have urge. Study also state that those who fuck less are more prone to prostate cancer. Since can't fuck everyday, masturbating is the next way around.

[Pockypig]

All cocks must exercise to stay in shape. just like weight training, if you don’t use it... you simply lose it. The cock also needs nutrients to keep its tissues and blood vessels healthy. So it sometimes erect to keep its strength. It even needs proper hormones to promote the proper flow of blood. Just think of it as a “training” regiment before the big screw with a vagina. The occasional pipe cleaning keeps men happy and their dicks healthy.

Health freaks claim self-pleasuring shows your body is in a healthy state. Some doctors even encourages masturbation to improve sexual experiences and to promote the health of the dicks.

So go for it as and when the urge comes and be at peace with it. Be proud and not ashame. If men are not suppose to masturbate then mother nature will position our dicks on our back rendering masturbation totally impossible instead of our groin region to be easily mess with by us.


Agree. But not too many times a day.
I have a friend who aren't ashamed of admitting masturbation 8-11 times a day. For how long, I can't remember.
But his snake remain sleeping in peace now.
Nothing can wake his snake up.

[goldie9660]

Agree. But not too many times a day.
I have a friend who aren't ashamed of admitting masturbation 8-11 times a day. For how long, I can't remember.
But his snake remain sleeping in peace now.
Nothing can wake his snake up.

I also had a friend whom once tried 7 times a day. The 7th time got blood traces. That one is one epic fail.

[archer69]

Why not talk to your wife about your need, or maybe set a date that you'll do everything to free her from work then she had no excuse of giving you sex.

[kpkblppl2]

Why not talk to your wife about your need, or maybe set a date that you'll do everything to free her from work then she had no excuse of giving you sex.

Exactly! I wrote the same thing.

A woman who still lactating likes her breasts to be suckled often. She will feel wetness when husband did that and will lead to sex.

[hornie]

sounds you need to spice up your sex life with your wife dude. Masturbate less, help her out with her house work like some other bros said, so she is less tired also, show her more attention, so jalan jalan a bit, go for a short holiday, have more sex. important to have some work life balance.