care to share your experiences

[welfare]

Any bro here care to share their views on how to bed a gal during his first date or numerous dinner and drinks. I'm more concerned about: Girl that is not your gf and how to bed her after dinner/ or wine sesssions. I have a very close gal fren and she treated me like normal fren. Usually, we will find a quiet place to sit down and chit chat.


for those who have encounter before, pls share/ guide our bros here. Thanks

[Dicky88]

But you ever wonder if that's the end of the frdship when she's not interested to bed with you?

(P.S.: That still applies even if you managed to bed her, frdship may ends too)

Hmmm although I also wanna bed my colleague whom I knew her for 8 years liao, recently I asked her if she wanna overnite with me, she rejected my offer and our frdship turned cold since then. Haiz~ :confused:

[flameboy]

To welfare: It helps if you have a car. Drive to somewhere quiet, beach, park, hill. Then touch her hand, move on to kiss her, move on to touch her elsewhere, then the rest up to you...if she doesn't resist you. If lucky, she stay in the mood while you drive to a nearby Hotel 81.

To Dicky88: 2 choices, 1. you forget about ever bedding her and apologise to her for your eariler action, thus maintaining your friendship. 2. You become more agressive by being thick skin and persuade her many times. If you hit jackpot, good for you! Otherwise, prepare to loose her friendship forever and not bedding her at all. Its your call.

[Dicky88]

To Dicky88: 2 choices, 1. you forget about ever bedding her and apologise to her for your eariler action, thus maintaining your friendship. 2. You become more agressive by being thick skin and persuade her many times. If you hit jackpot, good for you! Otherwise, prepare to loose her friendship forever and not bedding her at all. Its your call.

Think I will take choice 2, SHOWHAND liao haha, oso good to wait for good chance, like X'mas very good atmosphere :) *pray hard* :p

[asdfghjkl]

ya lor.. risk being left all alone ler.. :(

[Deztruct]

I hv something similar happen to me before and till now i still feel uncomfortable abt it

It happen many many years, one of gd frd, broke off with her bf and during this time..she keep callin me to accompany her..once i was out drinking with my frds n she call me, crying her heart out..after finishin the drinks, i went down to her hse to look for her..her parents work the nite shift while her sis was asleep in the rm..we were at the living rm with the front door opened..it was abt 2 am..we were +++kin n suddenly she broke down crying again on my shoulder..1 thing lead to another..mayb i was feeling high from the beer earlier and she was feelin lonely/upset...we ended up kissing and before we noe it..we were naked with the front door open n her sis sleepin in the rm..she gave me a bj and cim..after tat..mayb both of us were feelin guilty so we dressed up and i went back hm..after tat we din mention the incident again..n now..she is gettin married to my frd soon..so tats y i still feelin guilty for tat incident..

btw..my frd is quite pretty and with a gd fig..but i neva hv fantaise anythin abt her as she is juz a gd frd of mine..even till now..we can sit n +++ whole nite..but rite now..we only +++ overnite at public places..mayb subsciously..we dun wan anythin similar to happen again

[daryl76]

sigh... which is best friends remain friends, fb remains fb...
short fling is ok if u dunno each other tat well... otherwise dirty laundry is something u wont wan others to see in future... :D

[curiosityz]

sigh... which is best friends remain friends, fb remains fb...
short fling is ok if u dunno each other tat well... otherwise dirty laundry is something u wont wan others to see in future... :D

agree with you bro.