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lam1673
21-07-2005, 01:28 AM
Since last month, my wife started not to wear underwear while at home. She would wear a oversize T-shirt or bathrob with no bra & panties underneath. Occasionally she also sleep in nude. Of course it was shiok for me initially. However not all the time she wanted to have sex. At times, I have a naked woman sleeping next to me but I could not touch her. It is frustrating.

Is she developing a kind of exhibitionism ? I asked her why she behave like this, she just said she felt good this way.

TANJON
21-07-2005, 10:54 AM
I believe must be some of her female friends giving her the idea that this is good for her in some way. Maybe less stress of her breast etc.

But sleeping nude and cannot touch. really cannot understand!!!

Castrol
21-07-2005, 11:05 AM
However not all the time she wanted to have sex. At times, I have a naked woman sleeping next to me but I could not touch her. It is frustrating.

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is she supposed to have sex all the time? :confused:

sjb1994
21-07-2005, 11:12 AM
without bra is common nowaday, even there are a lot on the street. But without panties, a bit strange, as gal pussy tend to have a lot of differenct think come out along the month.

MMM88
21-07-2005, 11:20 AM
Since last month, my wife started not to wear underwear while at home. She would wear a oversize T-shirt or bathrob with no bra & panties underneath. Occasionally she also sleep in nude. Of course it was shiok for me initially. However not all the time she wanted to have sex. At times, I have a naked woman sleeping next to me but I could not touch her. It is frustrating.

Is she developing a kind of exhibitionism ? I asked her why she behave like this, she just said she felt good this way.

Bro....dun read too much into it....as long as she is not fooling ard ....let it b lor.....women r "unpredictable" creature....me dun understand my OC sometimes too.... :)

fun4evergood
21-07-2005, 11:51 AM
Since last month, my wife started not to wear underwear while at home. She would wear a oversize T-shirt or bathrob with no bra & panties underneath. Occasionally she also sleep in nude. Of course it was shiok for me initially. However not all the time she wanted to have sex. At times, I have a naked woman sleeping next to me but I could not touch her. It is frustrating.

Is she developing a kind of exhibitionism ? I asked her why she behave like this, she just said she felt good this way.


maybe the weather is too hot ?? but anyway, I wouldn't complaint about that......its a win win situation...... :D

shadowlunar04
21-07-2005, 12:14 PM
I think you wife is trying to add some spices into your marriage life. Maybe, she felt it was a bit dull. Try walking around with just your boxers on, dun be pai seh to show her your sexual interests to her. Women dun like to do sex just for the sake of doing it. They like the process of getting tease into it. Sometimes, they just like to tease but dun give you. But, I do find the "can see but cannot get it" feelings quite stimulating. :D

sjb1994
21-07-2005, 12:27 PM
.....women r "unpredictable" creature....me dun understand my OC sometimes too.... :)
I second it, no doubt.

notEnuff121
21-07-2005, 12:43 PM
I think you wife is trying to add some spices into your marriage life. Maybe, she felt it was a bit dull. Try walking around with just your boxers on, dun be pai seh to show her your sexual interests to her. Women dun like to do sex just for the sake of doing it. They like the process of getting tease into it. Sometimes, they just like to tease but dun give you. But, I do find the "can see but cannot get it" feelings quite stimulating. :D


Good idea... try to recall if there were any type of briefs that she like to wear, I'm sure she will be very keen with her husband being "sexy" as well.

Assume you have not kids at home ?

IF none, even better... bring more spice .. wear like her... big t-shirt with not undies

singexpat
21-07-2005, 12:53 PM
At times, I have a naked woman sleeping next to me but I could not touch her. It is frustrating.


Bro, mayb u can try sleepin naked besides her and dun give in when she gian.. tit for tat... :rolleyes:

bakah
21-07-2005, 01:28 PM
Bro, mayb u can try sleepin naked besides her and dun give in when she gian.. tit for tat... :rolleyes:

can tahan meh.wait she gian u dun give she think you fool around already how?hehe :D

xplorax
21-07-2005, 01:30 PM
Since last month, my wife started not to wear underwear while at home. She would wear a oversize T-shirt or bathrob with no bra & panties underneath. Occasionally she also sleep in nude. Of course it was shiok for me initially. However not all the time she wanted to have sex. At times, I have a naked woman sleeping next to me but I could not touch her. It is frustrating.

Is she developing a kind of exhibitionism ? I asked her why she behave like this, she just said she felt good this way.


Firstly, you must know there is a difference between wanting to be nude and wanting sex. It's perfectly alright and normal for her to be nude.

In fact, I go nude at home all the time and my wife has also gotten adjusted to seeing me nude in whatever I do, be it watching tv, having dinner, reading the papers, working on my computer, etc. When I help my wife with the housework over the weekends, she would comment she must be the only woman in Singapore to see a totally naked man doing housework every week.

Sometimes, I would also encourage her to be nude when cooking. She would, however, only go bottomless... as she's afraid the neighbours next block can look in through our kitchen windows.

That's the beauty of staying on the top floor of our building.... more privacy.

eternity
21-07-2005, 02:37 PM
Bro....dun read too much into it....as long as she is not fooling ard ....let it b lor.....women r "unpredictable" creature....me dun understand my OC sometimes too.... :)



ya man... woman r funny and unpredictabe.... bro u say it right... hehhehe

D!ckster
21-07-2005, 03:20 PM
However not all the time she wanted to have sex. At times, I have a naked woman sleeping next to me but I could not touch her.
Is she developing a kind of exhibitionism ? I asked her why she behave like this, she just said she felt good this way.

well bro lam..i would say dun fret over anything for the moment..but this situation kinda reminded me of a story i read sometime back...would advise u to be mentally prepared for it tho...IM me in yahoo or msn if u would like to know abt the story n the ending... :)

asdfghjkl
21-07-2005, 03:22 PM
see a totally naked man doing housework every week.

bro.. u mop and sweep naked? maybe i should try that.. :rolleyes:

kenwee
21-07-2005, 03:46 PM
Oi Lam 1673

One other possibility is that she has a pussy thrush (yeast) infection. I visited the gynae with my significant other before and from his point of view, if there is an infection, its better to "air" the snatch. Lots of discharge combined with panties and panty liner makes for a bad environment that promotes more itching........want me to check her out for u ?

Maybe that explains why she doesn't wanna fuck u either!

thaivisitor
21-07-2005, 03:56 PM
NBzzzz, some guys have all the luck and still complain.

KNN, my wife even when wearing a dress will make sure she has a shorts and that her dress is well below knee level leh...

Of course I don't mind that lah as I think if my wife were to be so liberal as to be naked everyday, then after sometime, not interesting anymore leh. :D

bully
21-07-2005, 04:07 PM
naked man doing housework every week.

A woman naked doing housework is sexy, but a man....... :eek:

singexpat
21-07-2005, 05:08 PM
can tahan meh.wait she gian u dun give she think you fool around already how?hehe

then tht will b in thread "gers are gers".. :D

rite bro??

Licky88
21-07-2005, 06:06 PM
Since last month, my wife started not to wear underwear while at home. She would wear a oversize T-shirt or bathrob with no bra & panties underneath. Occasionally she also sleep in nude.

I envy you! How wish to be in your shoes. But no sex??? Don't understand lah.

ivy7
21-07-2005, 07:11 PM
Since last month, my wife started not to wear underwear while at home. She would wear a oversize T-shirt or bathrob with no bra & panties underneath. Occasionally she also sleep in nude....

Is she developing a kind of exhibitionism ? I asked her why she behave like this, she just said she felt good this way.Why not? It's comfy! I'm surprised more women don't do this, actually. When I wanted sex, I'd wear specific lingerie :)

Exhibitionism???? You might want to read up on that term before using it on your wife...

Your wife is being honest and you are paranoid.

Travelman
21-07-2005, 08:15 PM
Sometimes, I would also encourage her to be nude when cooking. She would, however, only go bottomless... as she's afraid the neighbours next block can look in through our kitchen windows.

That's the beauty of staying on the top floor of our building.... more privacy

haha............ bottomless??? becareful while cooking if not kanna fire at -----forest {} :D

evo3
21-07-2005, 08:24 PM
Sleeping in nude is more healthy than having the bras on, bcos she already wear it for more than 8 hours also need o have a good rest and relax. Without panties while sleeping is also not a bad sign, but as a man if there is a lady sleep totally nude beside her it will auto make the guy steam up and will just simply lay a hand on her, so is unavoidedable lah

lam1673
22-07-2005, 12:16 AM
I really don't mind especially when she is in mood for sex. For example, when I came back from work one night, she came over to hug and kiss me immediately after I closed the door. This turned me on and I simply remove her T-shirts and a naked body exposed in front and we had a quickie right at the door step !

However it is extremely uncomfortable when I am horny and she is naked but chose to sleep instead of sex.

tommyboy290906
22-07-2005, 09:23 AM
There are many reasons for not wanting sex; such as timing mid month cycle is the best, vaginal dryness / infection / stress etc. Previuosly, my wife have all the above problems since asking her to try a herbal pill to boast her sex drive most of the problems are gone. here is a short clip of what this herbal
estravil which U can get it thru the internet & it works fine.

(estraVil's™[/U] unique, proprietary blend of botanicals and nutrients acts to gently and naturally correct imbalances that can interfere with your enjoyment and interest in sexual intimacy. Sensations are heightened, responses and lubrication are improved, and overall sex drive is increased with estraVil™.

Women sometimes blame themselves for their lack of interest in sex or their inability to feel arousal or achieve orgasm. It's time to realize, it's not your fault! Look at all the issues that interfere with a woman's sexual side:)

After taking over a period I can see the improvement in her sex drive such as longer performances, easy to arouse, pussy enlarge both in outer & inner areas in short more wild than before.

Hope this will help guys & gals.

ivy7
22-07-2005, 09:32 AM
However it is extremely uncomfortable when I am horny and she is naked but chose to sleep instead of sex. Enjoy the view and PCC!

About herbal pills... note that each person's response is variable and what works for one may well not work on another!

waypastprime
22-07-2005, 09:51 AM
bro.. u mop and sweep naked? maybe i should try that.. :rolleyes:

Perhaps he wishes to collect dust on his pubic hair? :p

bully
22-07-2005, 10:55 AM
Perhaps he wishes to collect dust on his pubic hair? :p

Hummmm... wat happen if she is shaven? :D
Bro Oi Lam 1673, pls check ya PM.

gazza18
22-07-2005, 01:07 PM
yo mate... itz fine to sleep naked lah... me n my wife also do it everyday... but side effect is that u'll get used to the body n the lust for each's body will tend to fade away... however, dat being said, when my wife is dressed up nicely, i get turned on!!! so works both ways... :)

KingBong
22-07-2005, 01:08 PM
Once I was helping my gf carry stuff to her place, her parents not home, so since I was sweaty and no aircon, just took off my shirt. That time in ns so still fit, she pounced on me then and later said she find sweaty bodies more sexy. So doing housework in semi-nude might be sexy for some gals also.

moaner
22-07-2005, 05:29 PM
poor guy...can see cannot touch

garfield_junkie
22-07-2005, 06:28 PM
In fact, I go nude at home all the time and my wife has also gotten adjusted to seeing me nude in whatever I do, be it watching tv, having dinner, reading the papers, working on my computer, etc. When I help my wife with the housework over the weekends, she would comment she must be the only woman in Singapore to see a totally naked man doing housework every week.

sad to say that she isn't the only woman in Singapore. My wife also saw a totally naked man doing housework everyweek. We do usually stay nake/nude at home.

mirkhanus
24-07-2005, 11:48 PM
Bro Lam...

My luck same as yours also. Most of the time, my wifey walks around in her undies & on occasions, she sleeps in the buff. Most times in fact, I cannot 'tahan' but I have to understand that she sleeps that way cos it's most comfortable and not restrictive.

So, bo pian, I PCC while surfing SB laaa.....hargh!! hargh!!

But a question remains..... Is this behaviour new or has it been going on for quite some time. Also, is your wifey the conservative sort????

*FiReWoRkS*
25-07-2005, 05:47 AM
haha surprised to find tt there r actually so many ppl baring themselves at hm in sillipore..

xplorax
27-07-2005, 06:56 PM
sad to say that she isn't the only woman in Singapore. My wife also saw a totally naked man doing housework everyweek. We do usually stay nake/nude at home.


Glad to know I have company. right now my wifey is into t-shirts and panties most of the time. Slowly getting her to go panty-less more often and then topless...

lam1673
28-07-2005, 03:11 PM
Bro Lam...


But a question remains..... Is this behaviour new or has it been going on for quite some time. Also, is your wifey the conservative sort????

It started for a month plus. She will do that only at home. When going out, she rarely wears revealing clothing without my presence.

lam1673
25-08-2005, 12:31 AM
An update to my wife strange behavior.

My wife has progressed to doing exercise work out in nude !

It started when she switched job to become a slimming center consultant. In order to project a better image, she determined to trim her excess fat.

She bought a track mill and a 3-in-1 rider and set up a mini gym at home. She brought home some fat burning , breast toning ointment back from her work place.

At least 3 times a week, she asked me to help to rub the fat burning ointment on her body focusing on her arms, tigh and tummy. The best part is she taught me the breast massage stroke and want me to massage her with the toning ointment. I just love doing all these to her. When I asked her why does'nt she do it herself, she replied "don't you like to do it for me?"

Then she would proceed to do her exercise in nude. The fat burning ointment suppose to help to burn fat more efficiently with exercise. Indeed she prespired like crazy and I could see droplets of sweat flowing down her body. Also looking at her cunt while she was riding, was really shiok. The sight is really erotic.

Seeing her doing the work out really turn me on. The best thing after the exercise, she usually feel horny, probably because of the exercise rider.

I will join her in the shower and we will make love in shower and proceed to another round on bed.

It really spice up our sex life.

The slimming program seem to work after 3 weeks. She lost around 3kg and she wristline has drop by 1/2 inch. Hopefully eventually she can regain her figure back to day of 34B 25 36 which was the best when we first married.

IreneXXX
25-08-2005, 12:58 AM
Then she would proceed to do her exercise in nude. ...... Also looking at her cunt while she was riding, was really shiok.
Erm... could you describe the exercise rider? If it is a normal upright bicycle, then her pussy lips would be right on the seat. If she is naked, that would HURT with all that cycling movement. :eek:

( I tried it before :o )

asdfghjkl
25-08-2005, 01:03 AM
ya.. thats what i was thinking too.. hehe :rolleyes:

me2u
25-08-2005, 01:24 AM
An update to my wife strange behavior.

At least 3 times a week, she asked me to help to rub the fat burning ointment on her body focusing on her arms, tigh and tummy. The best part is she taught me the breast massage stroke and want me to massage her with the toning ointment. I just love doing all these to her. When I asked her why does'nt she do it herself, she replied "don't you like to do it for me?"

It is not easy applying all this ointment all by herself, it can be quite tiring especially for those fat burning ones because you have to massage to obtain better results and there are areas that she may not cover fully... By asking u to do it, its like killing >2 birds with one stone - firstly she doesn't get tired from applying, secondly you get the pleasure out from applying for her, thirdly you will do it very diligently because u want her to look good and lastly she gets to enjoy your touch, isn't that GREAT? ;)

KingEros
25-08-2005, 01:37 AM
The slimming program seem to work after 3 weeks. She lost around 3kg and she wristline has drop by 1/2 inch...
Sounds like you're gonna tell us which slimming centre can do exactly that job, ya??
Anyway, I can visualise a sweaty naked babe on the exercise bike ... must be a helluva sight. :D

KingEros
25-08-2005, 01:39 AM
By asking u to do it, its like killing >2 birds with one stone - firstly she doesn't get tired from applying, secondly you get the pleasure out from applying for her, thirdly you will do it very diligently because u want her to look good and lastly she gets to enjoy your touch, isn't that GREAT?
Hmmm ... who does the rubbing for you huh?? :confused:
Or is there a opening for this job?? ;)

siambee
25-08-2005, 01:59 AM
bro, after i read ur thread, just realised that ur wife is ok lah, as u have mention that she have just change job to a slimming consultan, maybe her new friends down there been telling her some stuff/ways of keeping a more healthy lifestyle that might suit her, been nude at home is really a very relax method , not all people can get used to it.
as u have also mention that she own to have pyhsical contact with u by rubbing oil, having shower and make love........ this is the few signs that u stil in her heart. unless u mention that she only want to do all this things by herself , then something is really very wrong.

me2u
25-08-2005, 08:25 AM
Hmmm ... who does the rubbing for you huh??

Ohhh... That will depend what kind of rubbing I was looking for :rolleyes:

Or is there a opening for this job??

Unfortunately, the opening is closed for today... Maybe U can try again tomorrow :p

Toyota Honda
25-08-2005, 12:43 PM
NBzzzz, some guys have all the luck and still complain.

KNN, my wife even when wearing a dress will make sure she has a shorts and that her dress is well below knee level leh...



I had a gf (gf only ah) she also used to be like that.. I gradually taked her out to wear mini skirt slightly above her knee.. She did that with shorts on... then theres once after going steady for 6 mths, I was driving and told her she should learn to adjust to not wearing shorts... Guess what, naughty her just took off her shorts and smiled sweetly and naughtily at me.. Almost had an accident along AYE.. I love her.. still... though she is no longer with me...

lfc78
25-08-2005, 03:22 PM
I think it will be better if you ask her direct. Y the sudden desire to sleep naked? Then u will have the answer.

WhenSPH
25-08-2005, 04:09 PM
She's trying to spice up your sexlife