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SadLoser
24-01-2013, 08:53 PM
Need some advices from bros here on how to handle this situation- got to know this prc cat150 wl and she has been persistently sending me sms, either claiming that she misses me or asking when i will buy her the present as "promised" (she requested for a branded bag which costs around $1K).

In an attempt to end contact with her, I recently replied to her that I have patched up with my girlfriend and hence will not be going down to GL anymore. I thought this should be the end of story.
But to my surprise, she continued sending me msg every few days. As I did not reply anymore, she is now asking "why am I ignoring her" and/or "Can I at least give her a reply".

And she mentioned that she would like to have this branded bag for present. I did not promised anything, but since then she would ask me on a weekly basis when I will buy her the bag.


I am really turned off by her incessant msg. What really puzzles me is, we are not even that close in the first place:

1)I RTF around 5-6 times in the past 3 months
2)We exchange sms like maybe once a week, it's always the same thing, saying she miss me and asking when i will be looking for her.
3)We went out 1 time for dinner on her off day.

I know it's my fault as I should not even have exchanged number with her in the first place. But I have exchanged numbers with my regular WL and none of them has been like this.
Is there any ways I can handle this as if this continues, can I speak to her OKT (she belongs to a CAT150 house) about this?
Appreciate any advices and thanks in advance.

unregistered_10
24-01-2013, 08:59 PM
She must be doing this to others , also ,
In the end , she will have a bagful collection of gifts

TehGaDai
24-01-2013, 09:05 PM
Is She pretty? Sexy hot bod? Haha... Yah agree! She should be doing all those stuffs to other men. In the end, all the $$$ She got. :rolleyes:

SadLoser
24-01-2013, 09:40 PM
I am just worried that she might to stalk me. Maybe I am being paranoid, but this is the first time i encounter such persistence...

Balmung
24-01-2013, 10:03 PM
Change your HP number.
Or Go visit her delete your HP number and message on her phone

flowbow
24-01-2013, 10:13 PM
If you have been replying her messages/answering her calls, just stop and ignore her completely. I believe she will give up soon.

goodu
24-01-2013, 10:20 PM
what phone u using? some phones can block sms

SadLoser
24-01-2013, 10:30 PM
If you have been replying her messages/answering her calls, just stop and ignore her completely. I believe she will give up soon.

I hope so too, but i am just surprised by how she doesn't seem to give up. My last msg to her was 3 weeks ago. Till today, she still message me!

I am just worried if she can find my address through my HP number... :(

SadLoser
24-01-2013, 10:33 PM
what phone u using? some phones can block sms

Bro, i am using i-phone

flowbow
24-01-2013, 10:34 PM
I hope so too, but i am just surprised by how she doesn't seem to give up. My last msg to her was 3 weeks ago. Till today, she still message me!

I am just worried if she can find my address through my HP number... :(
Don't you use a prepaid number when you go chiong?

Anyway I doubt she can find your address la, but if you are really concerned, maybe you can try speaking to her OKT... If her OKT is nice enough he might help you. Not sure because I don't chiong, but hope my suggestions are helpful! :)

Otherwise, just stop contacting her completely and I'm sure she will give up in time to come when she realizes her efforts are not fruitful at all. ;)

SadLoser
24-01-2013, 10:38 PM
Don't you use a prepaid number when you go chiong?

Anyway I doubt she can find your address la, but if you are really concerned, maybe you can try speaking to her OKT...

It's my own carelessness as I just use my own number when I cheong...

i have learnt my lesson though...

passiontea
24-01-2013, 10:59 PM
It's my own carelessness as I just use my own number when I cheong...

i have learnt my lesson though...

Bro, i understand completely how you feel. I also used my own no. to chiong on this massage girl, and like on a sunday, she suddenly just called me and ask why you didn't call back. But i act blur like who are you?! lol.

It is kind of freaky sia, when it is a 1 time off and suddenly a girl just say, I miss u. =D

Max77
24-01-2013, 11:16 PM
I tot ignoring her can liao, unless she got ur address then habis

She's making a living, that's her marketing strategy.

Must have succeed many times that's why she keep using the same tactics...lol

JacqueMerlin
24-01-2013, 11:39 PM
Need some advices from bros here on how to handle this situation- got to know this prc cat150 wl and she has been persistently sending me sms, either claiming that she misses me or asking when i will buy her the present as "promised" (she requested for a branded bag which costs around $1K).

In an attempt to end contact with her, I recently replied to her that I have patched up with my girlfriend and hence will not be going down to GL anymore. I thought this should be the end of story.
But to my surprise, she continued sending me msg every few days. As I did not reply anymore, she is now asking "why am I ignoring her" and/or "Can I at least give her a reply".

And she mentioned that she would like to have this branded bag for present. I did not promised anything, but since then she would ask me on a weekly basis when I will buy her the bag.


I am really turned off by her incessant msg. What really puzzles me is, we are not even that close in the first place:

1)I RTF around 5-6 times in the past 3 months
2)We exchange sms like maybe once a week, it's always the same thing, saying she miss me and asking when i will be looking for her.
3)We went out 1 time for dinner on her off day.

I know it's my fault as I should not even have exchanged number with her in the first place. But I have exchanged numbers with my regular WL and none of them has been like this.
Is there any ways I can handle this as if this continues, can I speak to her OKT (she belongs to a CAT150 house) about this?
Appreciate any advices and thanks in advance.

Subject Name: Candidate #24
Potential: Carrot Head
Potential Level: 3.5/10
Priority Level: 5/10
remarks: Subject not likely to part with $$$, intending to severe contacts citing reconciliation with gf as excuse.

Recommendation: Channel 70% of attention spent on candidate #24 on candidate #48 and Candidate #52 Meanwhile continue to harrass subject till he relents but offer no more GFE until some justifiable rewards are reaped.

__________________________

Congratulations, you are one of the subjects in her list. My advise, just ignore her calls. As she gains difficulty trying to reach you, your priority level will decrease and as your priority level plummets... so will the harrassment. Press on for this period.

wally888
25-01-2013, 01:40 AM
Also tell her u got no more $$$ as u planning to get married, see how she responds:confused:

Nato17
25-01-2013, 01:48 AM
Also tell her u got no more $$$ as u planning to get married, see how she responds:confused:

Fastest way of making her disappear. Ask her for commando sex and see how she reacts. :D

ErnestK
25-01-2013, 03:00 AM
Don't you use a prepaid number when you go chiong?

Anyway I doubt she can find your address la, but if you are really concerned, maybe you can try speaking to her OKT... If her OKT is nice enough he might help you. Not sure because I don't chiong, but hope my suggestions are helpful! :)

Otherwise, just stop contacting her completely and I'm sure she will give up in time to come when she realizes her efforts are not fruitful at all. ;)

Precisely... No problem with exchanging numbers, just don't give them your main number. Surprised to read this from a samstress. And if you need a sim card, you can always pm me, you know? :D

As for asking the okt to help, normally okt will stay out of affairs between WL and customer. Why? Doesn't benefit him at all. WLs need to do these to get customers back, and when customers come back, who benefit too? OKT.

ErnestK
25-01-2013, 03:01 AM
Fastest way of making her disappear. Ask her for commando sex and see how she reacts. :D

Sekali she agree to it immediately.. then is TS turn to run liao..

valkyrierune
25-01-2013, 10:07 AM
just ignore can le...

the bag issue is very obvious

Coffeecans
25-01-2013, 10:26 AM
hahahah... do some stunts ba.

a) ask your friend who have a super stern voice to act as your 'dad', call her using your phone and say that its your dad who is using the phone now. Stop the harassing, saying you are stationed overseas liao. So stop all the messaging lo.

heehee and see what she says.

I'm sure ilock will have more ideas too. heehee

sean69
25-01-2013, 12:19 PM
TS,

call her and tell her you lost a lot of money in casino, just need to borrow 10K from her to pay back the loan shark..... :D

TehGaDai
25-01-2013, 12:25 PM
just go find her for 1 last session, give her some Hardcore/violent sex! :D
Give her 2 tight slaps and warn her not to contact you again.
Eg, say you getting married? And leaving SG... :D

SadLoser
25-01-2013, 09:13 PM
Thanks for all the advices bro...

I used to received sms from other wl, but normally if i do not reply 1 or 2 times, they probably get the hint and stop contacting.

But this time, i find this one freakish and scary. Her business seems quite good when I visited her previously, so i am really not sure why she behaves like she is so hard-up.

Any bros has smiliar expriences, particularly the Cat150 Prc wl?

DocD
26-01-2013, 09:37 AM
Somehow you must be wang bu liao for her. We should be nice to everyone but her problems likely you cannot fix. Shouldn't get her in trouble with okt. But also shouldn't reply no matter how crazy she gets (eg will kill myself, pregnant, aids). Unfortunately women like that see some kind of savior, but the real savior is themselves. Don't reply. Ever. Even if say come stalk you or whatever. Soon as she finds a new savior, you will be off the hook.

alan0338
26-01-2013, 11:07 AM
aiyo, just ignore her and after sometime will give up la, not so hard leh, unless u itchy hands go and reply her .... :p

TehGaDai
26-01-2013, 12:20 PM
TS, YOU put gong tao on her arh? 爱情降头 or Any Thai wicca or spells? Don't flame me. Just curious. :)

littlepok
26-01-2013, 12:33 PM
go to the house, kp to OKT then RTF her. then give a violent round, piss her off. like squeeze boobs ma jiam squeeze for milk to drip like that, violent one, pull hair abit (dont injure her la, basic man integrity) then treat her like a whore (don't show respect, make her feel crap). make alot of demands u want this u want that

give some insults here and there. wah lao not worth the $ le waste $ and time. cum liao also not shiok. why u got so much business one? all blind is it? and say some more nasty shit

dont bathe together at the beginning and end. dont kiss, say u feel dirty u just want to fuck and go. dont act gf la so many men, act whole day very tiring one. cut the crap and just fuck la dont foreplay, treat as a toy, she is used to satisfy u, not mutual.

some might think i am a cb kia but it seems to me soft approach do not work on her. treat her like shit so she know she no chance KC a bag out of u.

come out and kp to the boss of the house and okt, ensure your woman dont anyhow sms people ask for $ leh u got proof one later u call police and put their business in jeopardy. their woman disturb clients personal life, who dare to go in future? make a fuss to them instead of asking for help. they will not let anything jeopardise their business over 1 cb in their house. no woman is bigger than the whole business.

1 cent worth hor, mai zap ah. suggestion only.

sta1100
26-01-2013, 12:37 PM
No point to tell her okt, what you should do is to send her a nasty SMS telling she a chicken slut been fuck by so many dick and her pussy stink and dirty and not worth to spend $$$$ on her as you already got a GF. Very sure she will hate you but will stop the SMS.better do something before your GF found out and you are dead meat

tcrecruit
26-01-2013, 01:39 PM
jus to share, i always use a separate sim card for such adventures... be it FL or ktv gals... cheers...

SadLoser
27-01-2013, 01:21 AM
TS, YOU put gong tao on her arh? 爱情降头 or Any Thai wicca or spells? Don't flame me. Just curious. :)

I just find her services pretty good after the first session and went back a few more times after that. Never did i expect something like that to happen :confused:

SadLoser
27-01-2013, 01:24 AM
No point to tell her okt, what you should do is to send her a nasty SMS telling she a chicken slut been fuck by so many dick and her pussy stink and dirty and not worth to spend $$$$ on her as you already got a GF. Very sure she will hate you but will stop the SMS.better do something before your GF found out and you are dead meat

I dun wish to make things ugly if possible. I really hope she gets the hint and stop harassing me.

Of course, i am worried one day out of the blue she might sms me again and get spotted by GF.
Now, i know what it feels like to be haunted by your past.

A word of advice to all cheonging bros, never do anything stupid like that.

SadLoser
27-01-2013, 07:17 PM
Just when i thought things should have come to an end, she started calling me today!

I heard from my friend that there are AV regulations stipulating that licensed wl are not allowed to be meeting clients outside of the licensed house. Is it true?

asdfghjkl
27-01-2013, 07:24 PM
so you continue to engage her? :o

goodu
27-01-2013, 08:12 PM
actually u can ignore and dun reply to her sms/calls. i think she will back off after a while.

singmarine
27-01-2013, 08:57 PM
Challenge to give her internal cumshots & anal to turn her off

unregistered_10
27-01-2013, 09:43 PM
Tell her direct on the sms ,
I am engaged & stop stalking , sending sms .
Really need to put a brave front to tell her off.

SadLoser
27-01-2013, 09:50 PM
so you continue to engage her? :o

No i did not reply to her sms or call since 3 weeks ago when i send her a final msg telling her that I have patched up with my gf.

SadLoser
27-01-2013, 09:56 PM
actually u can ignore and dun reply to her sms/calls. i think she will back off after a while.

I have been ignoring for 3 weeks, and I also hope the thing will die off. But everytime i told it is over, i will get a call or sms from her... it just puzzles me why on earth is she so persistent? If it is just the bag ($1K) which she seems to be after, is it worth the effort?
I have also mentioned to her before that i am not a rich guy, so not like she can dig a fortune from me :confused:

Tell her direct on the sms ,
I am engaged & stop stalking , sending sms .
Really need to put a brave front to tell her off.

I am worried that if i send her any sms, she might start a long conversation with me which i am really tired of....

wildbeast
27-01-2013, 11:14 PM
Tell her you are pissed with her sms. Shout or scold her. Make sure MUST tell her NOT TO DISTURB YOU AGAIN!!!! Never RTF or contact her afterthat. Think most phone can barr call.

That is why I dun understand why some samsters can get so serious with these sluts! Maybe 1 out of 10,000 can be serious be. Think most of them see us as ATM only. $$$$$$$$$ is the only shit in their heads. Feeling, love, relationship... pls save for your TRUE LOVE! Why talk to these FLs on these stuffs?

If you think they poor thing, gotta lay by all sort of men to earn the $$$$, WRONG! No one force them! They want big and fast bucks that is all. I am sure you do see attractive PRC waitress, hawker, cleaner .... why they dun sell their pussies?

Their monthly earning after all expenses easily more than $8,000. This is based on $80 per session, 6 customers per day, 26 working days (less her period), $4,000 monthly expenses (where got so high). How hard we have to slog to make this amount!!!!!!! So why still TIP them? To make them remember you? Haaa....

Sorry! out of topic.... Good luck bro.

sean69
28-01-2013, 01:22 AM
or tell her you kenna herpes or some STD.. and the most recent sexual encounter is with her, scold her for passing it to you ... :D

deathnitez
28-01-2013, 05:23 AM
Tell her you are pissed with her sms. Shout or scold her. Make sure MUST tell her NOT TO DISTURB YOU AGAIN!!!! Never RTF or contact her afterthat. Think most phone can barr call.

That is why I dun understand why some samsters can get so serious with these sluts! Maybe 1 out of 10,000 can be serious be. Think most of them see us as ATM only. $$$$$$$$$ is the only shit in their heads. Feeling, love, relationship... pls save for your TRUE LOVE! Why talk to these FLs on these stuffs?

If you think they poor thing, gotta lay by all sort of men to earn the $$$$, WRONG! No one force them! They want big and fast bucks that is all. I am sure you do see attractive PRC waitress, hawker, cleaner .... why they dun sell their pussies?

Their monthly earning after all expenses easily more than $8,000. This is based on $80 per session, 6 customers per day, 26 working days (less her period), $4,000 monthly expenses (where got so high). How hard we have to slog to make this amount!!!!!!! So why still TIP them? To make them remember you? Haaa....

Sorry! out of topic.... Good luck bro.

make them fall for you is the best :cool: = no tip :D

DocD
28-01-2013, 08:50 AM
Just think about in your own case. If a girl tell you don't call me. Sure it will make you feel bad but you won't call. That is how a normal person is.

Again, you should not reply. People who are obsessed see a reply and can distort it in their minds to mean you are still interested (even if its no thanks!).

Don't reply and you will fade away.

freeneasy168
28-01-2013, 10:08 AM
i've been harassed by a FL for one month, just dun reply n she will eventually give up. ;)

hardworking48
28-01-2013, 06:32 PM
Aiyah...dont be so paranoid...just ignore her calls....dont even reply or answer her calls. Even if you answer her call, dont show in yr voice that you are frighten....otherwise she sure continue to terrorise you. Just tell her to stop calling in an angry voice and say you gonna report to AV if she keeps harrassing you. You keep talking to her thats why she keep bullying you.

How can she trace your address from Singtel or Starhub? Its against the law.So dont worry.

newyorker88
29-01-2013, 05:10 PM
It takes 2 hands to clap... best is to TOTALLY IGNORE the calls or SMS... Tell your GF you gotten a new number. Get your GF to call you on this number for time being, until it is over.

PRC woman can be very persistant in getting what they want from men, as long as they see chance to get money.

Remember, dont be bothered by her sms or calls, dont pick up the calls. that is the best.

Or like some brothers say, block the number....

flowbow
29-01-2013, 05:12 PM
It takes 2 hands to clap... best is to TOTALLY IGNORE the calls or SMS... Tell your GF you gotten a new number. Get your GF to call you on this number for time being, until it is over.

PRC woman can be very persistant in getting what they want from men, as long as they see chance to get money.

Remember, dont be bothered by her sms or calls, dont pick up the calls. that is the best.

Or like some brothers say, block the number....

But how to explain to his gf the reason for his temporary change in number :confused:

DegenerationX
29-01-2013, 05:18 PM
Just block the number lor