How to control the urge to do....

[threetreasure]

How to control the urge of doing something that may endup causing troubles for us?

The "something" could be

- when seeing girls wearing sexy, or expose body parts, hv the urge of taking a snapshot (picture) or video of the girl. we could be caught n hv troubles

- when doing with pro, fl ons, hv the urge of raw sex, and this could end up causing health problem. get STD, HIV, etc.

- hv the urge of doing with underage. we all know this is a BIG NO NO as is illegal, cause us big problem.. but if now really a young cute pretty underage in front of u willing to do with u.. paid or no paid.. can ur big head control the small head?

just like to hear from bro view for the above.. how to control the urge?

[BMW69]

Just think of the consequences. Think very hard. If all else fails walk away. You may hate yourself or regret it but it sure beats getting into trouble.

[singleman]

TS, regarding ur 3 points mentioned in the thread...

point 1 - if u see such girl. then quickly move ur eyes away from the girl.. bcos if u did not continue to see her.. maybe the urge of taking pic or video may disappear..

point 2 - alot of bro already said RAW is WAR.. maybe one way is before doing raw, always remind urself.. after doing raw.. alot of health problem may come, get STD, disease, or worst HIV.. think of the serious problem n hence may help to prevent RAW

point 3 - before doing with underage.. think abt the rotan... n imagine if the rotan strike on ur buttock.. the pain.. hopefully it help remove this urge..

[kindguy]

before talk abt how to control the urge... maybe go think why u hv the urge in the first place.. is it see too much porn stuff. etc..

one way is when u know ur urge come, quicky switch ur minds to do something else.. dun let the urge thought to continue.. which eventually the urge become actions.. and actions lead to troubles...

[Max77]

heng i dont have the thought/urge/chance to do the mentioned. 

assuming I have, I wld:

1) browse the internet/sammyboy for downblouses/upskirts/prettyfaces available. Keep reminding urself that Ur camera skill wouldn't be able to satisfy ur needs anyway to brave the danger

2) Remind urself that if that particular WL/FL wld do raw with u, most likely did raw with others OR already knew she's suffering from serious STDs. Hoping to earn as much as she could before she dies

3) gosh this is hard bcoz I can visualise the horrific after effects of such act. If u can't, God bless


Sorry about the last point but I really dont think I would have the thought/urge/chance to encounter such ever...


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Another way is to find the root why u have the thought/urge/chance to do the mentioned.

1) too much porn?
(cut down on porn immediately by all mean u can)

2) the need of a real girlfriend?
(mingle around more, go out with friends in large group more often. go to concerts)

3) watched the real thing and wanna try?
(gosh, the more u resist the urge, it gets worst. if u got to try it, might even be much worst...)

[PoundIt]

just keep reminding yourself of the consequences

[ErnestK]

Think of the consequences. Then multiply it by 10 times. If you still think of going ahead, think of your love ones who you will hurt.

This should do it.

[PoundIt]

Think of the consequences. Then multiply it by 10 times. If you still think of going ahead, think of your love ones who you will hurt.

This should do it.

or try visiting this link http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VndTTcm-Poc/TB-JDO9gi-I/AAAAAAAAA6E/L65qhZOjMLs/s1600/36642_1138519479132_1711762276_257040_283150_n.jpg

[ChiongBalai]

No 2 I nv encounter before but no 1 and no 3, everytime the temptation arises picture a Rolex on your hands and by Rolex I mean the type that our friendly boys in blue will give you FOC and bring you la kopi after that.

[(o)(o) Tuner]

There is 1 effective way to curb the urge whenever you see pretty gals. That is to go toilet PCC immediately and squirt your cum on the wall. This can surely cool you down. :D

[joncheong]

But what if a guy is sibei horny and have a fetish for being caned... He works in a cbd office with lots of ols in sleeveless blouses and power suits... He will have the fantasy to molest them and have the fantasy of being caned in prison later on... Best of both worlds right

[Skyboy1988]

It is useless for asking advice if in the end "that person" can't have basic self control..

[deludedgal]

see pyschiartrist..

[LALAIdiot]

Think THRICE.

Don't let a moment of folly ruin cause a never-ending regret.

If you're a man, fight the urge. We're build to lust and sin, but also build to be discipline and resilience towards them.

[wally888]

Donate all your $$$ to charity, no $$$ u cant commit evil:D

[ErnestK]

There is 1 effective way to curb the urge whenever you see pretty gals. That is to go toilet PCC immediately and squirt your cum on the wall. This can surely cool you down. :D

LoL.. just imagine he follow your method every morning on the way to work... by the time he reaches office, either both his legs soft liao or its time for lunch.

[jasdude]

Its all in the mind. Channel all the energy to work and you might even temporary forget the person you crave for.