FB is attached, however wants to continue our FB relationship.

[CuriousTricia]

I personally feel weird about this, any sis with such experience?

[royalblood]

i'm not sis. but in what way do you feel weird?

if you don't want to be the third party, then just cut it off and find a new fb.
if you wish to continue the fb relationship with him, then just continue and ignore about his relationship.

[<<totally>>]

I personally feel weird about this, any sis with such experience?


General description of a FB to me
A person who is not your gf/wife but a sex partner whom you have sexual relations, on the mutual understanding that you both want sex and nothing more. This type of relationship feeds on the sexual needs rather than the typical emotional type that required quality time together, remembering special occasions, sweet words of love to remind that you have not forgotten her.

That is part of my reply in another thread. FB can happened no matter what status both are in except deceased. Single, attached, divorced, married...and others, is there any difference in what you are doing as FB?

Maybe if he is attached or married, the quality of his spit might not be as sticky as before due to paying water bills at another outlet.

Maybe you can try explaining in a more detailed manner as to point are what are the areas that you felt weird at?

[lalakers]

fuck buddy is for fucking. you win he wins, nothing more nothing less. you can have your own private life after and so does he.

end of story.

[cheebong]

ts dam boliao. just go find another fb la

[Loban]

Fb attached.. You mind? Since you called yourself a fb. You should know the rules. If not, find yourself a decent bf or gf. :)

[dk1903]

seriously, i don't know anyone who is SINGLE and has a FB.
it is those who are attached, married, etc who has a FB.
otherwise, it will be more appropriate to call the FB a girlfriend, right?

the thing u r calling weird is what we call CONSCIENCE.
you feel weird because he is attached and he still wants to f you.
it's better that you break off with him before all 3 parties get hurt.

don't worry, there are plenty of FBs in the sea.
REALLY, out up an ad only, i can guarantee you at least 100 applicants! :)

[A42L]

Agree with most bros here, if both are single, I rather make her my gf, we can go all the way, unless 1party don wanna get tied down that's a different story altogether...

[desk1]

I personally feel weird about this, any sis with such experience?

If you mind he is attached, maybe you would like to ask yourself "Have I fallen for him? and also "where does this relationship begins on & ends? to be FB or will ended up as bf/gf relationship?"

U know better than anyone of us...


Cheers

[IAML]

probably physically u are superior to his gf?

just diff for guys and gals when it comes to sex.

it can be really just a physical thing for a guy with no emotional attachments,

whereas for gal's the sex will probably stir up some emotions...sooner or later.

just some lucky ppl out who are with the exceptions......

i'm sour i know.....what to do?

FML.....lol!!!

[CuriousTricia]

I've not fallen for my FB, it's just that it seems to be cheating.

We started off as two curious teenagers, but I feel that he should stop since he has a gf. I mean how can you be having sex with another girl when you claim to love your gf?

Anyway, just wanted some opinion, please don't see this as me looking for a FB, thanks.

[curiouslala]

hi sis..
i'm agreed with you.

my recent ex fb actually lied to me.
he said he's single, but then he actually already got gf.

to me, its not about i want the rs to become bgf..
but its more about trust..

even his gf knew that he got me as a fb, but i dont know him got a gf..
if we're talking about this since the beginning, it would be okay to me..
but since he insisting that he got no gf, i think no point of me continue to fucking him..

i know that fb will not be bgf relationship..
but, i really have no mood to disturbing or destroying someone's rs status by fucking her bf/hubby..

still got many single guys ard leh..
just need to choose wisely whom i will fuck.. :D

[WhisperingWind7]

Agree with most bros here, if both are single, I rather make her my gf, we can go all the way, unless 1party don wanna get tied down that's a different story altogether...

I Agree With This Bro Here. If You Do Mattered. He Would Have Made You His Gf. He's Just Using You.

[Reoxy]

my recent ex fb actually lied to me.
he said he's single, but then he actually already got gf.

just need to choose wisely whom i will fuck.. :D

I will not lie to you. I am married. I will never tell my wife about you. :D

Can I apply? :cool:

[royalblood]

i had a fb a few months ago, she fell for me so i cut it off. we were both single and i did told her i wasn't looking for a relationship. i'm glad i cut her off, she's clingy as shit.

[ew69]

my recent ex fb actually lied to me.
he said he's single, but then he actually already got gf.
.....
just need to choose wisely whom i will fuck.. :D

I will not lie to you. I am married. I will never tell my wife about you. :D

:cool:

http://www.qyou8.com/images/suo/2011-08/160_1313647220482.jpg Man never lie.....lol!

[poiy]

there's nothing wrong with it.
in my case, she has a boyfriend while i have a girlfriend & we've been together for 2 months.

but we do have to take precautionary measures each & every time when i meet her up in reality.

& as she's on the pill , i just hope she remembers to take it everyday as cumming in her raw is normal for us.

[CuriousTricia]

hi sis..
i'm agreed with you.

my recent ex fb actually lied to me.
he said he's single, but then he actually already got gf.

to me, its not about i want the rs to become bgf..
but its more about trust..

even his gf knew that he got me as a fb, but i dont know him got a gf..
if we're talking about this since the beginning, it would be okay to me..
but since he insisting that he got no gf, i think no point of me continue to fucking him..

i know that fb will not be bgf relationship..
but, i really have no mood to disturbing or destroying someone's rs status by fucking her bf/hubby..

still got many single guys ard leh..
just need to choose wisely whom i will fuck.. :D

He didn't lie to me, but like you said, I don't want to ruin someone's rs status...it would make me feel like the third party.

And to whoever deducted my points, grow up. Just because I said I am not searching for a new FB means you deduct my points? Sheesh.

[Tai_zi21]

From a guy point of view

Wat has he got to lose? 2 ladies to have sex with whenever he wan? that can't be a bad thing right? ;)

[curiouslala]

I will not lie to you. I am married. I will never tell my wife about you.

Can I apply? :cool:
i'm not looking for one now.. :D


http://www.qyou8.com/images/suo/2011-08/160_1313647220482.jpg Man never lie.....lol!
nah, it just happen that he lie to me lor.


He didn't lie to me, but like you said, I don't want to ruin someone's rs status...it would make me feel like the third party.

And to whoever deducted my points, grow up. Just because I said I am not searching for a new FB means you deduct my points? Sheesh.
and there's still many single guy out there whom also want sextifying time without have to worry about commitment lor..
so why do i or u need to be with someone who already married? :D

[tingx]

I personally feel weird about this, any sis with such experience?

Hi Tricia,

I am male here, not sis, for a start; if that swings your opinions. :)

FB is defined as 2 person who are meeting just for the bedroom intimacy, plus perhaps a soulmate to chat during those moments, and those moments mainly.

U sound to me as probably guilty that your FB did not tell his gf abt you, sorta of cheating on a fellow female. If so, maybe u could:

1) Tell him to let his gf know, and tat u will cont (if u wan) only if she agrees. (I wont understand why a gal would allow tat in the first place).

2) Cont in discreet knowing this is a FB rs (of which no long term commitment shuld come abt), which is in a way seemingly unfair for u (since u r feeling weird alr).

3) Cease the FB rs w him nicely, perhaps still as a casual normal frd (w no sex or intimacy). Find another FB. (If u r hungry for the sex... and it will also save his+her rs. Being the nice gal here u will be).

4) Resume singlehood and .... (enjoy life to the fullest! Which is way cool! :D)

5) Perhaps find a LTR (Long term rs) and possibly get settled down?

^^
My 1/4 cents worth....

[ah rat]

Sis curiouslala, no pixs to share.Miss yours neh neh & pussy :p :D

[demonorc]

You are right in saying that is cheating..

However, there is life.. there is lots of untold secrets in Singapore...

Just how big the cupboard that holds the skeletons.

I've not fallen for my FB, it's just that it seems to be cheating.

We started off as two curious teenagers, but I feel that he should stop since he has a gf. I mean how can you be having sex with another girl when you claim to love your gf?

Anyway, just wanted some opinion, please don't see this as me looking for a FB, thanks.

[AlohaDude]

I was told by my last FB that the reason why she would prefer attached or married man as FB is because much much lower chance of having STD since they're committed. Not saying its not possible but the probability is lower.

Having said that to have a FB thats attached in anyway is not for anyone as it will turn into a nightmare if feelings are developed....

[curiouslala]

Sis curiouslala, no pixs to share.Miss yours neh neh & pussy :p :D
no more pics la bro.. :D

[ah rat]

no more pics la bro.. :D

Ai yo yo ,very sad :(

[BiRd13]

and there's still many single guy out there whom also want sextifying time without have to worry about commitment lor..
so why do i or u need to be with someone who already married? :D

Not sure if this statement is true as gain this from my ex FB and current one...

"Married man are usually better in sex, over Single man..."
and some says...
"Married man can feel a sense of security over single man..."


Back to TS question,

It takes 2 hands to clap... Well, dun continue if you dun wish to. ;)

[curiouslala]

Ai yo yo ,very sad :(
dont be sad la..
posting will just make more application come into my PM..
my occasional fucking friend is enough for now.. :D


Not sure if this statement is true as gain this from my ex FB and current one...

"Married man are usually better in sex, over Single man..."
and some says...
"Married man can feel a sense of security over single man..."


Back to TS question,

It takes 2 hands to clap... Well, dun continue if you dun wish to. ;)
not really la.. single man oso can give security and great sex..
its just chemistry which make both feel more comfortable and create security and more sex.. :D

[ah rat]

dont be sad la..
posting will just make more application come into my PM..
my occasional fucking friend is enough for now.. :D



Sis,can secretly send to me la. :D
Miss seeing yours neh neh & pussy :p

[<<totally>>]

still got many single guys ard leh..
just need to choose wisely whom i will fuck.. :D

I think you are looking at one. :D

[curiouslala]

Sis,can secretly send to me la. :D
Miss seeing yours neh neh & pussy
walau.. u reply like this, i got msg ask me to send him my pics..
this thread supposed to discuss abt the topic lor, not about me.. :D

I think you are looking at one. :D
looking at what? i really dont understand.. :confused:

[BiGBadw00f]

some people, i think mostly. would make it a pre-requisite that their FB is not attached/married somehow to avoid all the trouble of being a mistaken xiao san/third party when ur FB partner is also a willing party.

Partly it could have be conscience, like what the other brudda said. But i believe the whole idea is NOT to be as the mistaken third party when their FB partner decides to be a jerk to cheat his gf. As ladies, i think they wouldnt feel good and they would actually understand how it feels to be cheated.

my 2 cents worth. (:

sis CuriousTricia, if u do enjoy the sex but have that bugging tinge of conscience, i'd say break it up earlier before she finds out somehow.

纸是保不住火的

[illuminati]

Although I didn't post much. I read almost all the post in the forum. FB is suppose to be "no string attached", even if any party gets a bf/Gf.

To me, I will rather end the FB if I'm not comfortable with my FB having a partner. Being with FB should be enjoyable and worry-free, if you dont feel so, please end it.

I used to have 1 FB, but due to some commitment, we both just ended off without any unhappiness. I believe if u come up clean with your FB, he or she should understands and end it too.

I may sound very experience in this, but sad to say I had only 1 ex FB. Basically I wish to follow whatever I feel towards somebody, rather than being unhappy together.

FB for me is kinda hard to come by, so I will make serious consideration before making any decision.

Hope u can clear your mind and decide what you really want.

Anyway, I'm a male (just in case ppl mistaken me as female).